Soul Client Convos: Owning the Value You Create in the World with Linda Rowntree

[00:00:00] Hey, Hey, dear ones. This is Allyson Scammell and today we’re doing our first installment of a new series I’ll be doing called soul client convos. And in these soul client convos, I’m going to be chatting with my own soul clients about our journey, and we’ll be exploring into all sorts of different themes based around the transformation they experienced on our journey together.

[00:00:31] And I am so thrilled that the first soul client up in the process is Linda Rowntree to talk about how she shifted and had a profound shift towards truly seeing and owning the value she was creating in the world and what that happened to her business. And we have an absolutely, delightful conversation about the journey that she and I went on together and how that shifted things in her life and her business and put her on an entirely new track going forward that she will stay on forever

[00:01:13] because of this work. So in today’s episode, in today’s soul client convo Linda and I explore how she released the blocks telling her she wasn’t adding value to the world, how that block release opened her up to fiercely claiming and owning her worth and how that translated into her having a signature offer that is now enrolled with soul clients.

[00:01:39] We end on an invitation that will have you discovering what truly makes you feel happy so that you can tap into the joy of the journey. So please, please stay with us until the end. Welcome to soul guide radio, a podcast for soul guided leaders, influencers, and entrepreneurs here to bring about change on a massive level.

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[00:02:50] Yes, we are now at 1300 leaders and Lightworkers who are in service to each other and the planet. Today, I was lucky enough to have a soul client convo with the amazing Linda Rowntree. Linda Rowntree is a soul advocate. This means that in whatever way, she’s asked to serve, she hears what the soul is calling for, and that helps to empower her clients to heed that call.

[00:03:17] She owns the rainbow house wellbeing center and gives one-to-one sessions of psychic mediumship readings, energy healing, and intuitive transformation life coaching. Or intuitive TLC, as she likes to call it. I had an amazing time connecting with Linda on this call, please enjoy.

[00:03:39] Hi, Linda. Welcome so much to soul guide radio. Hello, and thank you. Thank you for inviting me. Oh my gosh. I’m so excited to have this chat with you. We’re going to be talking about you, what it is you do, your unique genius in the world. And we’re going to take the listeners on a journey of what a coaching journey can look like and how you can tap into this amazing energy of tapping into your soul client avatar and using that energetic frequency and that connection to help

[00:04:09] guide you and your business and you were my client. We worked together for only three months, which is not very long. And I was continually sort of mind blown by you and the journey we were on and the insights that came up and how fast everything was happening and it was very, very exciting. So I was really excited to have you on the show to talk about it.

[00:04:34] Thank you. I must admit that when I started with you, I didn’t expect things to move that quick,. But they did, they sure did. Yes. I love there’s something exciting about that speed. And it wasn’t like a speed in our hurried way. It was like that flow and sometimes when you’re really in flow, it can feel fast in a, an exciting aligned way.

[00:04:58] That’s what I experienced with you, Linda. So let’s start with what let’s, let’s hear a little bit about you. You do some really fascinating work. So tell us a little bit about your business. I run a wellbeing center in a county in England called Suffolk the towns called Sudbury. And it’s called the rainbow house wellbeing center.

[00:05:19] And here I do one-to-one readings for people, psychic mediumship. I do energy healing with crystals and the angels. I do a little bit of burn class, that kind of thing, or I do classes. And then I do the coaching, which seems to have overtaken everything else at the moment, which was why I was drawn to work with you.

[00:05:40] Just to give me a little bit of clarity on how I was going to move that forward. Oh, yay. I love that. So I want to get into the coaching overtaking and I love the work you do in the world, by the way, just sounds like such an amazing portfolio when you bring it all together. So let’s start with when we first started working together and some of the things you were struggling with

[00:06:04] that prompted you to, to work with me. So some of those specific struggles that were slowing you down in your life and your business. The biggest thing is clarity. And also letting things go that I had grown into that I didn’t kind of realize that before we started working together. I knew that I was looking for a mentor or a coach.

[00:06:26] And when I connected with you, it was a good feeling, soul feelings. So that’s why I decided to let you help me. And you did. That’s why I feel it went really quick, really easy because we had that connection or I had that connection and that confidence in you, which is what I needed, I feel at the time. Yeah. So I think that’s kind of where I was at the beginning.

[00:06:47] I was looking for clarity and maybe some kind of sense of, like I said, letting things go that I was already doing and I didn’t need to be doing anymore. Somebody else can pick that up, which I realized working with you that you know, I don’t have to do the reflexology head massage and all that anymore.

[00:07:07] Somebody else can do that. That was the lesson for me. Brilliant. And I love what you’re saying about that soul feeling. I definitely had it too. And I really feel like you’re a soul client of mine. When you feel it, you just feel it and how I experienced it, I just know it right away that you and I, Linda, we, we have our energy goes way back.

[00:07:30] Like we, we do have that soul connection and that we agreed on a soul level to help each other at this point in our lives. And I’m helping you and you’re helping me back. And it’s just this give and take in this flow. It’s this flow relationship. Where you’re coming to me, you know, you’re giving me business in return for that business.

[00:07:50] I’m giving you coaching and return for that coaching, I’m helping you grow your business and get the clarity. In return, you’re helping me get clarity on who I am as a coach as well. And then in return, when I get clear on who I am as a coach, I can serve you at a higher level. And then I bounce that back to you

[00:08:09] so you can get even greater results and a greater return on the investment in the coaching journey to begin with. So it’s got this back and forth flow where we’re, it’s just, I feel so mutually supportive. Did you feel that too? Absolutely. Yeah, I don’t, I have had trust issues in past or, and have worked on those.

[00:08:33] And so it was really refreshing to talk to you and not have that. Yeah. It really worked when you said to me, connect with your soul and ask, it was instant. I didn’t really even have to ask the question. It was just there. The answer was there. Yeah. That’s so good. That’s so good. So I want to take people through a little bit of the journey, because I think a lot of people are curious, like how these coaching journeys look.

[00:08:56] I think one of the things that we did right away is we tapped into your soul client avatar and you are able to do it very quickly. And get some really exciting information from your soul client avatar. What was that experience like for you? That was curious. It was well-received. I kind of knew it, so it was almost my Cubs remembering because I did kind of know it, but it was through

[00:09:22] my own experience that I kind of knew it, which was, which I think made it easier for me because I have done a lot of work over the years on my own soul and my own journey. And so when I did that connection or made that connection, it was, it was quite easy. I don’t say it’s easy all of the time. And a lot of the things that come up when you do that kind of thing can be upsetting.

[00:09:48] You know, cause you run, uh, unaware and then all of a sudden you’re faced with something. But certainly that first session with you, it was, was quite easy. That first connection we have with the, with the client avatar, that was, that was an easy. Yeah and it just came flowing through. Is your soul client avatar still named Stella?

[00:10:06] Yes. Nice, nice, nice. And we also tapped into your high soul purpose and what came through it for you, is Linda is a soul guide. Does that still feel true? Words that came to me about two weeks ago was soul advocate. Ooh, I love that. That is awesome. And that’s speaking on behalf of soul, being on the side of the soul, but it’s also being on the side.

[00:10:34] You see? Cause I don’t believe that we have a soul. I believe we are a soul. And so being a soul advocate just seemed to fit that idea. I remember when you first said that too, it gave me chills that we don’t have a soul. We are a soul.. And we got a message from source when we were doing this work and the message from source was.

[00:10:52] Linda, believe in yourself. See the value in it? Yes, I remember, that was powerful. Yeah. And what came from that was even more powerful. So tell us what came from that. Walk us through. You asked me to connect with the feeling of it, the emotional bit but what actually came up was that I couldn’t see the value.

[00:11:16] I knew it was there and I understood the value, but I just couldn’t see it for myself. Other people tell me, you know, and I have a very good client base, a very good reputation. But I just couldn’t see it for myself. So amazing. It was. And so with your help then I connected with the memories that came up.

[00:11:37] There were two of them in particular and I connected with those and could understand why I couldn’t see the value in what I do, which is very huge. Yeah. And those were some memories that were in the form of blocks. Is that right? Yeah. And we did some again, like we’re talking, we had like six sessions together.

[00:11:58] Why does it feel like we worked together for a year, but, um, yeah, I love that so much. And we did some, some block clearing then, and I just feel like, I feel like they were like monumental shifts. That just felt like that for me, clearing some of these blocks that were taking you away from your belief in yourself, because one of the things you do is you’re like, I’m not going to say this right

[00:12:21] but like a confidence coach, you help people tap into their confidence and you have that. It was so clear, but this is, this is what happens. This is such a good example of this. So Linda’s a confidence coach and she knows about this and she’s brilliant at helping people tap into their own confidence and find their confidence

[00:12:39] but yet she had, because that’s a bright gift of hers. There was a shadow there. There was a shadow. And that’s what happens with our biggest gifts have also the biggest shadow. And so you could see it, you could see it for everyone else. And then didn’t fully see it for yourself. Yep, absolutely right. Yep. That’s so brilliant.

[00:13:00] So what happened? How did things shift when we did that energy work, we released those blocks and you started to believe in yourself and see the value in the work you were doing. Did you want me to talk about the two memories or just how it kind of panned out? Yeah. Why don’t you, if you, if you don’t mind sharing.

[00:13:18] I think people, I think it’d be useful to people to see how these dots connect. The first memory that came up was when I was 11 and I passed the 11 plus. And when we got home, my father said that they had a letter from the school said that that’s what happened. We just sat and talked and I sat on his knee.

[00:13:39] And it was just a lovely 15, 20 minutes, just, you know, those moments when there’s a real bond, there’s a real connection. And just an understanding. And me and my father always had that. We didn’t even have to speak to one another. We could be in each other’s company right up until he passed a couple of years ago.

[00:13:56] We could be in each other’s company. We didn’t have to say anything. It was easy. And we then had dinner and my mother then came home. We had dinner. My dad had to prompt her to actually say to, to me, you said, aren’t you going to say anything to Linda about passing her 11 plus? And she just turned around and said to him, well, as long as she doesn’t come home with any hoity-toity ideas, and that was all she said.

[00:14:20] So the value in that, that for me couldn’t go anywhere because she’d spent on it. She’d locked it out for me. She just, you know, the, the, the good feeling that I had, she just wiped clean. Then when I passed my driving test and I passed that first time, we were picked her up and brought her into town and then I was taking a vain

[00:14:43] and again, she said to me, well, I never thought I’d live to see the day when you would be driving me around. And again, it just took, took it away from me, you know? And the thing that came out of it with you was that she could say all she wanted. That was her stuff. That was, that was her stuff that was made up of her life, her experiences, you know, the things that she missed out on because I feel that she did, there was a lot that she probably wanted to do that she missed out on.

[00:15:12] And so that was her stuff that she was giving to me. And I took, I took it. And I then thought in the moment, you know what I can carry on doing that for which I can carry on taking the stuff and I can carry on holding on to it. And I can carry on allowing that to stop me from appreciating who I am, appreciating my gift, appreciating how I can bring that to the world and the values that I do give to people in the work that I do.

[00:15:40] Or I can listen to my dad. I can listen to him when he said, oh, I’m so pleased that you’ve passed your eleven plus. He was the first person that knew I passed my driving test, you know, so that’s what I’ve, that’s what I took from that session. Let all the negative stuff go, let her stuff be her stuff and concentrate on, on the positivity.

[00:16:01] The love that me and my dad shared and that’s what that’s the big change is I know see the value in our relationship. Wow. That’s such a beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing. And I think what it demonstrates is how, in two pivotal moments of your, of your adolescence, you came home excited with a real belief in yourself.

[00:16:24] With a real, like, wow, I’ve created value in the world. I have value to give the world, I believe in myself. And then a critical figure in your life kind of popped your balloon. Absolutely. Yeah. And that’s and then what, you know, that’s what we do when we’re at these pivotal points in our youth and we hold it, we take that forth, we take that forth, even in those moments where we know it’s not true.

[00:16:48] We know, we know on a soul level, well, that this actually is when thought work can kind of flub us up because actually even our mind can be like, yeah, you do add value, you do believe in yourself. Yeah, but then when the block is there, when the block is inside you with that pain you’re carrying around from your childhood.

[00:17:09] You don’t, on an energetic level you don’t fully believe your thoughts cause that block is there. I mean, I knew that there’s a lot being said about mindset and everything, but if your heart doesn’t reflect that if your heart doesn’t truly believe what your mind is saying, if that’s where it’s blocked, that’s where it gets.

[00:17:29] Yeah. And you can say all that, that you’d like out there in your mind but if your heart is blocked with something, you know, it doesn’t have anywhere to go and just sits there. It sits there until it’s released. And that’s what we did. We got into the energy, into your heart, and we released any of that pain that you are carrying with you.

[00:17:51] And the work I do normally it’s pain that actually even comes from past lifetimes. It comes then, and this was likely ancestral Linda, that, you know, your mom had got it from somebody. And she was passing it on to you. Right? But yeah, so we, we were able to release that. I feel like it just, like, sometimes you can release a block and life feels a little different.

[00:18:15] Sometimes you release a block and you feel a shift and that’s just what I felt with you, linda. I felt like the fundamental shift in your energy after those blocks were released. Absolutely. I was grinning from ear to ear the rest of the afternoon. I drove home grinning like a Cheshire cat. It was perhaps the memories,

[00:18:35] really really was. That’s so cool. The other thing I really remember about our time together is your unique genius. So I define unique genius as those abilities you were born to share. And I include like spiritual gifts in there as well. Healing gifts, intuitive gifts, all those types of gifts. So this is what came through.

[00:18:57] And Linda, you can tell me if any of this has shifted because our, the clarity of our unique genius is always shifting. So I’ll share with you what I, what I really loved. I’ll share with the listeners what it is and the part I loved about it the most. So the unique abilities Linda was born to share is her love and passion for herself and other people.

[00:19:19] And this is the part I really love to allow people to be who they are with no judgment, which can confuse people because there’s no opinion here. And she can handle the confusion. That gives me chills, because I think we’re so used to judgment. Right? We’re so used to an opinion when it’s not there. I think that this is so spot on.

[00:19:47] It can be confusing. Okay. I think so. And I don’t give opinion very often because I think a person has their own opinion anyway, and through the work that I do that opinion of themselves or judgment of themselves will clear and be changed anyway. So, you know, it’s forever shifting.. So familiar. Yeah, that is so brilliant.

[00:20:09] And then we go on to say, she’s very intuitive. And Linda helps people to remember that part of them they come in from, so that their, their soul contracts, she ups people. It’s like, like you’re talking about being a soul advocate. You help to remind people like they are a soul and where it is they really come.

[00:20:28] And what, what they’re really meant to do here. Does that still like it’s on the right track? It does. Yes. Yeah. Because quite often people think that soul purposes is that that’s it, once they know what their soul purpose is, that’s it, but it’s part of a journey. And do you know, to just remember the soul purpose, it’s a huge thing and it will help you with the journey, but getting a little bit more clarity on that too.

[00:20:53] Yeah. That helps. Yeah, so, so beautiful. So you’d mentioned earlier in the conversation that your coaching has kind of is overtaking things. Is that in a good way? And can you say more about that? Well, I initially going to coaching because I was a complementary therapist, did reflexology and did it with some religion.

[00:21:14] When I retrained. That was, that was what I retrained as and I couldn’t get enough of it. So I learned anything and everything and then I did the one-to-one reading, psychic mediumship readings and I did color therapy, which was intuitive color therapy, which was a huge learning for me. That was a two year course. And I learned so much about myself through that.

[00:21:36] And I just wanted to kind of put it all together and I knew that’s what I should be doing. But I couldn’t quite figure it out. And so I sat for quite some time. I took some time out and I sat quite some time. How could I put all that together to help people? And the coaching came through meditation.

[00:21:58] And so that’s what I thought I’d do. I’d become a life coach. It wasn’t enough just to be a life coach. And I don’t mean that disrespectfully to anybody else that’s a life coach, but I knew my way of working was slightly different. And it was to do with the intuition. And I think the detachment, that’s where the detachment helps as well, linking in with people and understanding what’s theirs and what’s mine and helping them to see what’s theirs.

[00:22:25] And on that soul, On that soul level, helping to remember who they are, what they’re here for, how they can go on their journey, make it easier, more flexible, go with the flow. I love that. And this was really a signature offer we’re talking about. So that was Linda taking her the energy of her soul client avatar,

[00:22:46] taking the energy of her soul purpose, taking the energy of her unique genius and bringing it all together into this amazing signature offer. The thing that I remember when we first started talking about your signature offer, which, you know, you might still be tweaking and refining. Right?Cause we’re always tweaking and refining it.

[00:23:05] Yeah. Right. But I remember like when we first, this was after we had cleared the blocks that were kind of taking you away from seeing your value. With those blocks cleared and getting the clarity on the, those energies that I just mentioned you immediately. So I said to you, Linda, what do you think the value, how much are you going to charge for this?

[00:23:29] I knew I was very pleased that you immediately felt a high value in it. And immediately a lot of my clients are very like, oh, well, you know, you know, we, we, we, we think that we have to put such a low price tag on things for a variety of reasons, but you immediately felt the value in this amazing offer.

[00:23:47] Yes, I did and I do understand where people come from with that because the value isn’t necessarily financial or the reward for the person that you’re working with isn’t necessarily financial. So again, I could kind of see how it wouldn’t necessarily, ultimately for me be a financial price tag, it would be the benefit to them.

[00:24:10] It would be how their life changes, how it transforms, how it grows, how they grow, you know, and all the good stuff then that they start to attract. That was kind of where I was getting caught up with it, I think. Yeah. So when you said the coaching has kind of taken over, does that mean you are getting more clients into this offering?

[00:24:31] Yes. Ah, that’s exciting. It is. Yeah. What do you think has been, if you, if you had to name one thing that was sort of the most transformative for you from our coaching journey, what would that be? It would have to be the seeing my value that transformed me having transformed me. Then I can pass that on and use that to help other people to transform. That ripple effect.

[00:24:59] Yeah. And so I had it all really. I just couldn’t. That there was just that one little piece that I couldn’t see. And I might say little piece when I did say it was huge. Yeah you had it all. And I’m grateful. And, you know, I understand about the laws of the universe, law of attraction, the law of gratitude. I understand about all that.

[00:25:22] And I was even using that before I was aware I was using that. And so, you know, I got it, but it was just that little snippet of information, that snippet of connection. Yeah. And how does your life look differently now in that energy of owning your value? Well, how’s, how’s it different on the day to day?

[00:25:43] How’s your business look different? Well, I have fewer clients now and I know it’s not been very long since we finished our work together. I’ve got fewer clients now, but the value in it is greater. That’s how it’s changed for me. Most, mostly the readings are still there, but they’re not, even those aren’t the same as what they used to be.

[00:26:06] Even though I feel like I’m bringing the soul, the soul connection in to the readings that I do rather than the everyday stuff and the healing, the energy work, linking with people on the soul level, getting them to link with, with themselves, that part of them, that is the soul. And that’s how my work has changed.

[00:26:24] Wow, and now do you have more energy because you’re working with a smaller group of more connected clients? Indeed. I do. Yeah. When you’re working in the world of soul clients, you don’t need 20 soul clients to be fully booked. Most people are at around the number six or 10 or 12. It’s usually somewhere under the number of 12.

[00:26:47] For some people it’s three or four. I have four at the moment and I’m happy with those. And the thing though, the thing that you talk about energy is that my happiness level is going up. I know that sounds weird, but my happiness level has gone up. I honestly am more happy than I was before. It cut a nerve

[00:27:07] really? It’s lovely, I just can’t find the right words for it. It’s beautiful. It’s lovely. I’m content on a much more, I’m not forever chasing things. I feel it’s, it’s brought me, brought me back to who I really am, who I truly am and not forever chasing things or looking for things out there, you know, more clients, more clients and clients. I don’t have to do that anymore.

[00:27:30] Yes. I don’t have to fill my day with, with clients and I love it. I love every minute of what I do but I don’t have to chase it anymore. Oh my gosh. That is so amazing. And that is really the essence of this energetic work of this energetic soul client attraction. You’re not chasing, it’s just, you’re magnetizing just the right people in.

[00:27:54] Absolutely and that is it and that does lead to happier. That is happier and it’s more balanced and it’s just more energizing because the chase is very tiring. It’s very tiring. Yeah. But it’s so brilliant. And I’m with this, like I said, that shift of allowing things to go now, you know, I don’t have to do the

[00:28:20] therapies anymore, you know, I can let those sort of things go. And the readings, if, if it comes to a point where I don’t have any clients wanting readings. I know there are other people out there that can help. It’s not just about me. It’s about, you know, other people and sharing and allowing people to find their own way with, with it and their own teacher, their own mentor, their own clients.

[00:28:43] Yeah, my heart is just smiling. So I would love to spend our last minutes together, maybe doing a little bit of coaching to demonstrate to our listeners how this can work, this energetic and intuitive connection connective work we’re talking about. So let me just ask, is there any part of your business at this moment or your life that.

[00:29:04] you think maybe I could help you get a little clarity or a little tweak, a little refine, a little upgrade. I’m putting Linda on the spot here too a little bit because.

[00:29:16] Yes. I mean, over the last three, three or four weeks since we finished working and I suddenly have this clarity on my value, that’s been good for clients and, but it’s the other stuff now, the kind of keeps kind of filling in the emptiness that that’s left, if that makes sense. So it’s chaos you know, and I’m a, want to be their family.

[00:29:37] And I, and I want to be there in that respect and my style, you know, that’s been the last three weeks have just been chaos with the staff here as well. It’s the chaos that’s kind of like come in on top of that to fill the gap. And I that’s the bit, I don’t kind of get.. ’cause, I’m not, I’m not, you know, I can deal with things as they come along, but you know, to have to store from both of them, go off at the same time, through no fault of their own, it’s not been, or, you know, anything that’s happened here.

[00:30:07] And then let’s say family stuff as well. It’s just been the last three weeks have just been chaotic, which I feel even though, the the work shifted. I could see the value in it and I don’t have to chase now, clients and things will keep trying to promote myself. The gap that’s been caused by that just seems to be filled with chaos.

[00:30:28] I was hoping it had something to do with the knots and the full moon and that kind of thing. But my feeling is it’s a little bit deeper. So I feel that’s what I would like to your help with this afternoon.. It does. So this is a good example of what can happen when you, when you do create this space, you make a shift and you have this, this happiness, and this, this spaciousness in your life, in your agenda.

[00:30:51] And then the other people in your life can come in and sort of fill, fill the gap just as you have explained. So what I’m being called right now to take you to is I think there might be another block here that is, it’s not, it’s not necessarily yeah, I’m getting there’s another block here and it’s not at all to say that you’re creating this chaos.

[00:31:18] You’re not, but the block is giving you a message that something to do with, tell me if this is landing for you. There’s a limit on how happy you can be. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. It’s like the upper limit. There’s a glass ceiling. And when you get close to that glass ceiling, other things have to come in to sort of keep you beneath this glass ceiling.

[00:31:48] Yes. Leading into the, the, the parts of that thought system. I can only be so happy. That feels true. What else comes up for you? That’s the by creating this gap, the chaos is stopping me being happy with my own company, my, um, doing something for me, it also feels tied up with that value you again, maybe are seeing the value for the people, but it’s, it’s giving that value to my time to myself

[00:32:27] that makes me happy. Recreating that gap because my happiness now is for the people in the work that I do, and the fact that I don’t have to chase clients or don’t have to fill my time doing that, then that gap should be filling it with making myself happy, but I’m filling up the chaos. lean into that for a sec.

[00:32:51] I’m filling the gap with chaos. I’m filling the gap with chaos. I’m attracting the chaos. I’m not, I’m not, it’s not my chaos. Right? It’s affecting me, but I’m attracting the chaos. And when you lean into that, I’m attracting the chaos. I’m attracting the chaos, because my happiness has always been there for other people.

[00:33:16] It’s never been in here for me.. My happiness has always been out there. I I’m happy for that. But, It’s never been for me. It’s been about making other people happy. And that does make me happy but now I want to make myself happy as well by doing things I want to do, taking time out, doing my work.. So let’s lean into that.

[00:33:40] Let’s lean into those moments where it feels really true. It’s always been out there for other people. My happiness. It’s never been there for me. Maybe lean into the piece of you that might be thinking it can’t be there for me, or I don’t deserve it being there for me. It’s about other people and I want you to lean into that.

[00:34:01] And when that feels true, it can’t be for me, it can only be for other people. Those moments in time, where that feels true. And I understand it doesn’t always feel true, leaning into those moments in time when that feels true. What emotions are triggered, how does that feel? Sadness, Yeah, because I would feel sad if somebody came to me and said that, no, but it feels, I feel sad for myself.

[00:34:25] Okay. I can’t be happy for me. Yeah. And where do you feel it physically in the body when you feel into the sadness? My heart. Yeah. So Linda now for about 60 seconds, I invite you to give yourself permission to just feel this sadness notice where you’re feel it in your heart, notice where any of it is residing inside your energy body,

[00:34:53] and invite you to like bring it to the surface, bring it up, bring the sadness up to the surface of your skin, to the outer layers of your energy body from giving yourself to feel the sadness related to this chaos. And this I’ve always made other people happy, but I’ve never left it for myself feeling any sadness or other emotions that this

[00:35:19] belief system is triggered anything inside of you that’s ready to be released in this moment. Just noticing with curiosity, how does it feel when I give myself permission to feel and taking as long as you need, when you feel the emotional waves, starting to go down, just say the word now.

[00:35:40] Now. Beautiful. Now I invite you to look within and notice if you see or sense an energetic rope, cord, or string attaching you to any of these blocks or belief systems. And go ahead and produce a sharp object in your mind’s eye and cut the cord or chords if there’s more than one and cut them all the way through.

[00:36:04] Hmm. As you do that, I’m just going to do a little energy clearing myself. We’re in a clear away this block. Beautiful. And I invite you not to place your awareness in your heart space and just breathing into your heart energy. And I just invite you to invite in the happiness for yourself, invite in the happiness for yourself.

[00:36:37] And if chaos arrives from someone else, that’s not part of you. Invite in just noticing it, observing it, invite in not allowing it to fill the beautiful space and gaps and that you’ve created. How does that feel? That happiness just for you? Can you feel it? Yeah, yeah. Feels a little bit weird, I can feel it yeah, feels a little weird. I like it. All right go ahead. It’s comfortable.

[00:37:15] Just weird. It’s good weird. Yeah. What else do you feel? It also feels peaceful. Nice. That is really interesting because obviously chaos doesn’t tend to be peaceful. So it’s the opposite of, of the chaos. yeah. There’s an inner peace here that, you know, that’s how the happens feels. It’s peaceful. That’s beautiful. And this has been such an amazing example of what can happen when you up-level like you’ve done Linda you’ve up-leveled in your life.

[00:37:46] You’ve aligned yourself. You’ve aligned your business. And in the process you have soul clients arriving to you with joy and ease. It’s created a spaciousness. It’s created a magnetism to you. And sometimes your outer world has a difficult time adjusting to that. And so you get to always be in charge of your energy, even if you’re not in control of some of the things happening in your outer reality, you can’t control other people.

[00:38:14] Sometimes you can’t control situations, but you can control your happiness. And I did sense that, that there was a, what I’m getting to, like at this stage, I call it the nuance blocks, right? These are like our next level blocks. There were somehow in this case telling you Linda, that your happiness is for other people and not for me, and now we’re releasing that.

[00:38:36] And ah, you’re tapping into the happiness that is for you. Absolutely, why shouldn’t it be for me? Hell yeah. I love that. So when you feel that chaos in your outer world, and if it returns my challenge for you and your Buffalo steps, my word for homework is to go back to this, just, just drop into this inner peace drop into this calm and say, what’s, you know, what’s my best next step?

[00:39:09] There’s this chaos happening and it, and it’s affecting me. And so I can control my energy. I can control my response. I’m going to drop into this peace and this happiness and just ask the question, what is my next best action? What is my next best response to this? So I can maintain my peace, my happiness.

[00:39:33] Beautiful. Linda, you are so amazing. I want to thank you so much for being on the show, sharing your journey with us being willingness to be coached at the end, because I think it was a brilliant example of what happens as you up level and how you just got to keep on the journey of upleveling and releasing blocks.

[00:39:54] And I know there’s some folks out there listening who would love to learn more about you and your work and how to find you. So where can the listeners learn more about you and connect to you if they’re interested. I have a website it’s www dot rainbow house wellbeing, center.co.uk. It has everything on there that I’m involved with at the moment that may change as I go along.

[00:40:17] But that’s okay. Cause everything has to evolve. So that’s where you’ll find all my information, what I do, how I do it. Beautiful. And we will leave that link in the show notes. And Linda, I normally ask my guests to leave our listeners with a challenge. And you’ve talked about some amazing things today. So I was wondering if you had a challenge or as I like to say, actually, an invitation, leave our listeners with an invitation to do something or be someone you’re inviting them to some somewhere.

[00:40:52] What invitation do you have for the listeners today? My invitation is to find what makes you happy. And to embrace it and to know that it’s okay to be happy. So choose, choose at least one thing that makes you happy, but to feel it. Yes. It’s one is one thing to have it in your mind. Yes, I’m happy. But the other thing to do is to feel into it, feel the happiness and feel it for yourself.

[00:41:21] And it’s alright to do now. That is beautiful. I love that invitation choose one thing that makes you happy today, let’s get into it and then feel that happiness get into the energy of happy and see what comes. I love that invitation. Thank you so much. Linda, thank you so much for doing amazing work you do in the world and for being you and for being on the show.

[00:41:44] So grateful for you. Definitely my soul sister really, really has just been such a joy to connect with you in this way. I’m truly blessed to have met you.

[00:42:01] That’s all we have for you today, dear listeners, isn’t Linda, just a joy? I wish you a beautiful week. And until next time, may your soul guide the way.

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