What If Your Biggest “Mistake” Was Actually Soul-Aligned?

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[00:00:23] Hey, ho, dear ones. Welcome back to Soul Alive Radio. I have got an incredible episode for you today that’s super relevant, super timely, . It’s just coming up again and again and again in client sessions, in my own life. I was working with my coach just yesterday, and it came up for her, and I just kept saying to myself, “It’s a podcast episode,” which is what I say whenever themes like this just keep recurring.

[00:00:51] And that is this idea that maybe, just maybe Our biggest, air quotes, mistakes in life were actually soul aligned, actually part of your soul experience. And it’s this difference between being out of alignment as a human being, doing something that you regretted, doing something where you said, “I knew better.

[00:01:23] Why did I do that?” But on a soul level, when you zoom out and look at the soul experience, you are actually facing the challenge, doing the thing that you agreed to on a soul level before you came into this lifetime so that you could learn, heal, grow, and evolve. And that’s what we’re gonna be unpacking in today’s super powerful episode, this difference between human non-alignment and soul alignment, and how when you have that bigger perspective, it leads to greater forgiveness of yourself, greater healing, greater learning, and , ultimately your ability to evolve to the next level of your potential.

[00:02:18] So let’s dig into this. I wanna start with a story, and literally I can think of about six or seven recent examples where this came up. But I am choosing one of my clients because it just illustrates this point so beautifully. We were just in a session and we had been coaching– I’m gonna call her Sarah.

[00:02:43] And we had been, uh, working on her relationship with her partner, and she got – married very young, and they’ve been married– She’s not very old, but because they got married very young, they’ve been married for almost 20 years. And we had been working about, on some of the difficulties she’s had getting married so young and then, uh, now that she’s in her 40s, just wanting to be her full self with him, not wanting to hide or mask , just showing up as the true her and how that’s been kinda difficult because he knows this version of her that he married, and this is what he’s come used to and likes.

[00:03:31] And as she’s been on this spiritual journey of healing and growth and evolution, he hasn’t really been following her on that spiritual path. So she’s feeling like their path has been going in different directions. And I recorded a whole episode about this. When you’re on a spiritual path and your partner isn’t, why is it that this happens?

[00:03:56] And what do you do about it when you feel like you’re growing in different directions? And the first thing I do in these situations when I f- when, when a client says this to me, “Well, I’m having problems with my partner,” on anything, kinda what do I do? And it’s funny because I focus on helping spiritual entrepreneurs grow a business, but I work with a lot of people who aren’t entrepreneurs.

[00:04:24] And in our sessions, I do a lot, a lot of relationship coaching. And I, I just finished my relationship coaching, uh, certification in human design, and I just kind of thought to myself recently, like I have hours and hours of relationship coaching in my rucksack, and I never market it. I never talk about it.

[00:04:49] I would never call myself a relationship coach. But, , my point is that so much of running a business is about relationships, . – referring to romantic relationships or like life partnerships.

[00:05:03] Um, and so much of being an entrepreneur, you know, your partner, uh, is just so much a part of it, not just your business, but obviously your life. It’s, there’s, it’s just so much of who you are. So if your business is thriving and your partnership is suffering, then you’re suffering. I mean, you can’t just compartmentalize to be like, uh, “Oh, yay, you know, my business is doing great, and I’m just not even gonna look at this, you know, this other area of my life with my partner,” which certainly can happen.

[00:05:42] So all this to say that very, very often my sessions turn into relationship coaching. And to be honest, to pat myself on the back a little bit, I think I’ve gotten quite good at it with all this experience. And I hold the philosophy in relationships that you’re either all in or all out I think what flubs a lot of relationships up when they’re struggling is a lot of people are half in and half out, and that is always…

[00:06:19] I, I’ll say that is never a recipe for success. So getting back to Sarah, it’s the first question I ask, should Sarah be all in in this relationship? Like, this relationship has a future? And if you think it might have a future, that doesn’t mean you’re 100% sure. It just means that you think it has a future.

[00:06:40] You gotta be all in. You gotta be like, “This relationship is struggling. Maybe my partner did something to hurt me, but I am all in to make it work.” Because long-term partnerships are hard. They’re challenging. You gotta put time and effort into them, and if you’re not all in on something that you want to last however long, 40 years, 50 years.

[00:07:06] How long do you want your relationship to last? That’s a long time. Can you think of anything in your life that lasts that long? Okay, maybe if you have children, your relationship to your kids, but what else lasts as long as you would want a long-term partnership to last? If you want something to last that long, whatever it is, you gotta be all in.

[00:07:28] So that’s where I start. Should she be all in, or have these two people gone in such different directions she should actually be all out and looking at ways to decouple and to realize at least temporarily, maybe it doesn’t mean all out forever. It could be all out for a period of time, a trial period of time.

[00:07:53] None of this all in, all out means forever. It just means for now, in this moment. Am I all in or all out? ‘Cause the straddling is what just keeps people spinning the wheels and not really moving the relationship forward the way it needs to be moved forward. So I asked that question, and I immediately got all in.

[00:08:14] And so I put it to Sarah, “What does your intuition say? Should you be all in in this relationship or all out?” And she got all in. It’s like, okay, so now we know. She should be all in. So then we went to the next question. What’s the big problem here? And we started to talk about this and that and this. She’s got this new identity, but I kinda knew that there was something underneath here.

[00:08:41] And when we started to dig, we got to a story where when they first got married, very young, — They were in their first year of marriage, and she met someone and had an affair The affair lasted for a couple months, and then she cut it off and realized that that was just not something she wanted to do.

[00:09:12] That was not her in alignment. That was a huge regret. She felt like it was a huge regret, a huge mistake. Why did she do that? That was not how she wanted to show up in her partnership. She loved her partner. He was the one she wanted. He was the one she wanted to make it work with. So then, time went on, and several years later, he found out about it.

[00:09:42] She decided not to tell him, and then he ended up finding out about it some way. I… She didn’t specify how. And then that sort of opened that can of worms up a second time. Why didn’t I tell him about it? I should have come clean right away. If I would’ve been honest and owned up to it, it wouldn’t have been quite so painful when he found out about it in his own way So what was happening was she had done a lot of healing on this.

[00:10:14] Like I said, this literally happened like 20 years ago, and she’d done a ton of healing on it, but she was still holding on to the guilt. “I betrayed the man I love the most.” Crappy feeling. Like, I empathize. It’s like, oof, that’s tough. But what happened when we dug a little deeper on this story? And we zoomed out, and any time you zoom out to anything happening in your life, to the soul perspective, to the wider perspective, to the longer tail, it always helps you detach from it, lean into the lessons, do the healing, and really find the relief and the evolution, and it really enables you to , integrate some of the things that have happened in your experience in a way that really serves you and helps you evolve.

[00:11:21] So that’s what we did. We started to look at her soul experience, and this is very common, very common. I had this in my own experience. I would say most light workers out there, if not all of them, have some version of this story, where she had several past lifetimes with her current partner, and in a previous past lifetime, he betrayed her.

[00:11:51] This is so common. So he betrayed her in a past lifetime, and in this lifetime, she betrayed him. Now, why would it work that way? I mean, what’s the point of all that? The point of all that is growth and evolution. So in a previous lifetime, this is, , a really fascinating story. , I just had this session, so it’s all pretty fresh.

[00:12:16] They were, , living in, like, 15th century, like, Germany, and they were part of– They were each part of, like, a royal family, a family with a lot of prominence, and it was a time in history where most marriages at that level were arranged for sort of political reasons, and they had fallen in love, but they kept their love secret.

[00:12:43] And he was a royal messenger, so he was traveling all over the place, … They weren’t the royalty, but they were part of the royal sort of entourage, if you will, and in very prominent families. So he would be traveling all the time and coming back- spreading these messages, obviously before you could just pick up a phone or send an email.

[00:13:07] And at one point in time, they vowed that they were gonna let their families know that they wanted to be married out of love, and this was a time when most of the marriages were arranged for political gain, . And so he had one large trip, yes, yet to do, and we– I collected all this. I did a past lifetime regression with her to collect all this information.

[00:13:33] , I don’t really like to use the word regression. I just, in case you’re wondering, like, how I got all this information in my coaching process, I use my spiritual gifts to collect, if you will, a past lifetime, and I get visions, I get, um, downloads, I get messages with regards to what the past lifetime is And I use my spiritual gifts.

[00:14:00] And y- you know, if you have the belief that you’ve lived past lifetimes, most of the listeners of this show do, that’s great. If you’re not sure, just follow your higher self. You don’t have to trust me that any of this is real. Um, just follow your intuition. Like, listen to what I have to say with an open mind, and then just ask your intuition, “Is Allyson onto something here?

[00:14:21] Um, can I trust this? Um, what does this mean for my life?” So as I share this whole episode, you can just be checking in to see how this is landing for you and what feels true for you. So I invite you to open with a listen mind, but check into your own divine guidance system. So getting back to Sarah’s past lifetime with her current partner, he’s a divine messenger.

[00:14:44] He is going off for one big trip. He was, like, going to, like, India or something for this super long trip, a trip that would take years. Nobody knew that they were in a romantic partnership. So then she waits for him, and her family is arranging marriages and finding suitors for her, and she’s saying, “Nope, not him.

[00:15:08] Nope, not him.” Her family’s getting very frustrated with her. This was a period of history where women really couldn’t say no, but she was saying no, which was very brave on her part, and she was doing it for love, for the love of the man she loved. So finally, years pass, and then her family gives up on her at this time and says, “All right.

[00:15:32] We’re gonna go on to your younger sister, and we’re gonna create matches for her, and you’re on your own. You’ll be a spinster. Sorry, you’re out of our hands.” But she knew her love was coming back and that she would be able to be in partnership. Well, he comes back, and whilst he was on this long journey, he meets someone else and marries this other person, and he did not follow through on his promise to come back and marry her.

[00:16:04] And she felt in that past lifetime a deep sense of betrayal. This person betrayed him and sh- prevented her actually to even have a husband and to have children. And in that lifetime, she kind of stayed in this sort of spinstress archetype and was never able to marry because she had missed her window waiting for him.

[00:16:28] Now, these two have had a lot of past lifetimes together. Again, this is very common. If you’re in a partnership with somebody or have been, it is highly likely that you’ve had… It’s not 100%, but it’s just likely that you’ve had some sort of past lifetime connection together. So why would this client need to have these experiences?

[00:16:52] Well, it’s all about the evolution of the soul. So when we are born as baby souls, right? If we go into the world without any experience, without healing from those experiences, there is no evolution. Just like a baby human, if a baby human never, ever, ever had a challenge, , let’s say a baby is born and has a whole lifetime and experienced no challenges the entire life They would have real no, no know-how, nothing to give back, no, like, depth.

[00:17:37] It would just be a challengeless life. This person probably wouldn’t really know joy, because you don’t really know joy until you’ve experienced sadness or anger or loss or despair. We need these contrasts, especially in human form. We don’t really need them when we’re in non-physical form, but in physical form, we need these contrasts to understand.

[00:18:01] We need the dark to understand the light. And as our soul develops and our soul is wired for growth, we evolve by incarnating as humans or incarnating into physical form and having challenges, experiencing suffering, learning from the challenges, healing from the challenges, gaining the experience of the challenge, which is usually a pretty rich, deep experience.

[00:18:32] I mean, look at this couple, what they’ve been through extends so much deeper than this lifetime. That’s a lot of really rich, deep experience together, and that’s where evolution comes from. That is evolution: growing, learning, evolving, experiencing. That’s how we grow to the next level of our potential. So again, super common in all partnerships where you kind of switch.

[00:19:01] Um, betrayal is such a good example in romantic partnership. She was betrayed in the last lifetime. She betrayed him in this lifetime. So she, Sarah, had a soul contract before she came into this lifetime to betray her husband. When she actually betrayed her husband, she regretted it. She felt terrible. She healed on that thing for 20 years, still healing.

[00:19:31] So was she in alignment or out of alignment when she had the affair? Think about that for a sec. What do you think? Here’s my take. My take is because she actually had the regret, and she actually wished she wouldn’t have done it, and she’s actually all in with her husband, I think on a human level, she was indeed out of alignment.

[00:19:54] She strayed. She– Maybe she got married very young. She maybe hadn’t had a lot of different experiences with different men, and she got whooped up off of her feet. It happens. Like, we have compassion. It, it happens, okay? It happened, right? But ultimately, she realized that’s not what she wanted. She wanted the person she married.

[00:20:15] So there was this regret. But on a soul level, she had agreed to go through that, and that actually helps her release the trauma from those previous lifetimes, from the lifetime where she was the victim, right? So that’s how this works, where we go lifetime to lifetime, especially with relationship contracts.

[00:20:44] I have my current partner, Pete, he and I have had many past lifetimes together, and we have many soul contracts. And so when a challenge comes up in this lifetime that’s a… Kind of you wanna look for challenges that are a reoccurring theme, right? And the challenges that dig a little deeper, not just a squabble over, you know, who’s gonna unload the dishwasher.

[00:21:11] Although those squabbles usually seem surfacey, but they almost all have a deeper root, a deeper tale that l- very likely goes back to even previous lifetimes, not just the origins of your relationship in this lifetime. So when I notice that about Pete and me, I will immediately ask, like, “Where is the root of this challenge?”

[00:21:43] And I almost always get a past lifetime, and then I uncover a soul contract, and then the question becomes, most importantly, “What do I need to do or be to fulfill this soul contract?” That is one of the most powerful questions you can ask, ’cause we have soul contracts on all challenges in our life, not just relationship challenges.

[00:22:13] “What are you calling me to do or be, higher self?” to fulfill this soul contract? And if you wanna back up, a better question to start with is, do I have a soul contract that’s ready to be fulfilled right now? If you get a yes, what is it? Now, most soul contracts have something to do with healing. Most of them are about our challenges.

[00:22:41] Some of them are about our growth and our potential and reaching our higher dreams. But I would say, like, just in this moment, like, higher self is kinda giving me two-thirds, one-third. Again, check with your higher self to see what you get. So let’s say, like, two-thirds of our soul contracts have to do with challenges, one-third have to do with growth and potential and reaching dreams.

[00:23:04] So typically, when you go through these questions, a challenge will present itself, and then it’s just like, what healing is ready to happen in this moment to fulfill this contract? Now, unfortunately, we typically can’t fulfill a contract, like, in one healing. Even if you hire me and we do a deep healing together, that’s typically not gonna fulfill a whole contract.

[00:23:33] Typically, a contract like the one with my client, Sarah, I mean, she’s been healing on this contract for 20 years, and she’s still healing. So a lot of our co- contracts are with us for a lifetime, and we just keep healing layers and layers and layers of it. So another powerful question you can ask the divine is, can I fulfill this contract in this lifetime?

[00:24:00] And if you get the answer yes, then that means, like, this is gonna be a big part of your soul curriculum for this lifetime, is to work on healing this contract, whatever the challenge is. So Sarah’s example is betrayal in her partnership. But it’s not just about her being the betrayer, it’s also about her being the betraee, right?

[00:24:26] Because we’re looking at the big picture, not just this lifetime. And when you’re thinking about your healing journey, I really, really, really invite you to think about the holistic healing journey. Start with this lifetime always. Always, always, always, always start with this lifetime. Those are the wounds you need to heal first.

[00:24:48] But then you need to start b- bringing in ancestral trauma, the trauma that you were born into from your family line, and definitely past lifetime trauma. If you’re neglecting these two big pieces of the healing pie, you know, you’re still gonna heal, but you’re just not gonna get that holistic healing.

[00:25:08] And you don’t have to go super far down the rabbit hole of your ancestry or your past lifetimes, but just if you hire a good energy healer who has this holistic perspective, at least from time to time, you’re gonna get this healing. So I just invite you, if you don’t already incorporate it, and most of the listeners of this show probably do, but if you’re here on the newer side of your journey, I just invite you to start dabbling around.

[00:25:38] Is that a verb, dabbling around? I invite you to dabble with, what might be some wounding that I inherited from my ancestry, and what might be some wounding coming in from past lifetimes that’s ready to be healed? So getting back to Sarah and this concept of being out of alignment as a human but being in alignment as a soul, what did Sarah and I do?

[00:26:05] We did a deep healing. But we healed more than just… I mean, she’d already done so much healing about what she had done in this lifetime. We were mostly going into the past lifetime where she was mad at him. She felt betrayed by him, and we were healing that. And in doing that, it helped her release anything that she was feeling for what- played out in this lifetime.

[00:26:36] So I was able to have that holistic healing for her. By the end of the session, she was completely transitioned. She started the session just feeling so out of sorts, and she didn’t know, and they’d been fighting a lot and second-guessing everything, second-guessing the partnership, and by the end, she really had this feeling of all in, um, he’s my person, I’m gonna present all sides of myself to him.

[00:27:08] Um, this inner knowing that even if he didn’t understand it, he was still gonna accept it and be open to it, even if he believed something different, which our partners are always gonna believe differently than us, and it’s never gonna be an exact match, that they were still an aligned couple. They still had, you know, they have a long soul history.

[00:27:31] They have a long history from this lifetime, and When I tuned into their energy, they are a very in sync couple. Like, he’s definitely one of her soulmates. And again, I just recorded an episode about soulmates from the soul perspective, what that really means. Uh, so if you’re interested in that, check that episode out.

[00:27:51] We’ll link in the show notes. But, um, he’s a real soulmate of hers. And I think a lot of non-spiritual relationship coaches might have heard her story, and I just think that they might have just guided her in a way that wouldn’t have been in her highest and greatest good.

[00:28:11] ‘Cause sometimes when you look at relationships on the surface, you think one thing. Like you th- you see a relationship like, “Oh, that relationship’s doomed to fail,” or, “That relationship is blessed to s- to succeed.” But when you, hmm, get in a little deeper, it– that’s not necessarily the case. And I think their partnership could have been, some therapist could have started coaching her away from him, and, “Maybe you need to go your own path.

[00:28:40] He’s not growing with you. Go your own way.” And that is just not the way she needed, I believe, to be coached when I really tuned into her energy, her soul, his soul, and their soul contracts and what they’re here to do and be in this lifetime There’s another aspect to this. So this is one aspect where, , you are feeling out of alignment as a human versus a choice that you made, but yet you’re in alignment on a soul level.

[00:29:16] The other way this can play out, and this played out big time in my life in a s- in, with a certain situation, is when you are following your higher self, but everyone around you is saying you’re making a mistake So the first is when we deem that we have made a mistake, and the second way this can show up is when everyone around you is telling you you made a mistake And when I s- first got into partnership with Pete, there was a lot going on in h- in his life, and there was a lot going on in my life, and all of my loved ones told me, literally all of them told me that I shouldn’t be in a relationship with him, that the timing was off, that we weren’t good for each other, that it wouldn’t last, it wouldn’t work.

[00:30:14] I mean, I actually met with a therapist who told me to move on. He wasn’t the one for me. She was so sure that I needed to dump his A-S-S and move on, and that I was making stupid choices. I think she even said that to me. Can therapists tell you you make stupid choices? I would never, ever, ever in a million years say that to a client.

[00:30:38] Um, but she even told me, she was so clear that she had the answer for me, which again, I would never, ever presume in a thousand years I had answers for you. My job as a coach to h- is to help you find your own answers. But this therapist was very clear that I needed to dump Pete and move on. Here’s the problem with all of those opinions.

[00:31:02] My higher self was clear consistently that he was the person I was meant to partner with in this lifetime and the person I was meant to have children with. It was clear. It was consistent. When we first got together, our situation was very confused and very kinda messy, and if you were on the outside looking in at our glass house, it would’ve been very easy for you to grab a stone and chuck it at our house, and that’s what all my loved ones did because they loved me and they wanted to protect me.

[00:31:42] Their heart was in a good place, with the exception of this therapist, who I think was just, uh, not showing up very well for me in that session. But my loved ones were trying to look out for me, but my higher self message was clear. So guess what I did? I followed my higher self, and I even lost– I didn’t… I, I think I temporarily lost a couple friends, or I definitely had some family members who were mad at me, accused me of acting irresponsibly.

[00:32:17] , Which was very painful at the time. But then guess what happened? We got married. , All the, the messiness that was present in our courtship sorted itself out. , , Really it was like the second we got married, the rough seas just calmed.

[00:32:38] And we found ourself in a very good place, and I was very happy, he was very happy. And it was almost like it just sort of like a snap of the finger and then everybody was on board. And all my kind of naysayers, they just never mentioned it again. It just sort of gotten for- it was just forgotten. And now Pete and I just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary, and it’s not even an issue anymore.

[00:33:11] It’s not even something we think about anymore now after all these years. And I feel like we’ve never been in a better place, you know? Um, we have a super strong partnership. We’ve had our challenges just like all partnerships do, but we’ve gotten through them and I’ve definitely checked into soul contracts, and we’ve come out always stronger.

[00:33:31] So when I look at my own soul contracts with my own partnership, I can map, you know, the past lifetimes and I can see where in one lifetime I was the aggressor or the griever, and in the next lifetime I was the agreeee, depending on whatever the issue is. And the reason why is this is how we’re meant to learn, grow, experience, and evolve.

[00:34:02] That’s why we go through all this tomfoolery. Otherwise, the soul can’t evolve. If the soul is without conflict and just in a bubble of love, there is no evolution. It just stays the same. There is no growth. We need the conflict for the growth to happen, and we don’t experience conflict in non-physical form.

[00:34:28] When we are between lifetimes, there is no conflict. We are in love. We are in the divine. We are connected completely to the divine, a place of love and light, so there is no conflict. We are essentially in a love bubble. So we incarnate into physical form and we put on these human suits to experience conflict, and this is the way that the soul evolves.

[00:34:54] But if we don’t heal all the wounds of a particular lifetime, by the end of that lifetime we carry those wounds, we carry those soul contracts with us like luggage to the next lifetime. So if you’ve had a lot of conflict in any area of your life or with any partner, any relationship, whether it’s a sibling or a parent or a child It’s very important to check in and say, “Can I fulfill this contract in this lifetime?”

[00:35:31] I’d mentioned this earlier, because you don’t wanna carry that forward like luggage if you don’t have to. So when it comes to my relationship with Pete, I’m very clear. I don’t wanna carry any of this, you know, pain or suffering or challenge with me that I don’t need to. So I’m always asking is what aspect of this soul contract that I have with Pete is ready to be fulfilled in this moment?

[00:36:00] We have too many soul contracts to map them all in a particular lifetime, so don’t try. All you can focus on is what’s in front of you right now. That is the far and away most empowered way to do it. What soul contract is ready to be fulfilled, or at least an aspect of it fulfilled in this moment so that I can evolve to my next potential?

[00:36:29] Getting back to Sarah, you know, I think her having this knowledge of this being out of alignment as a human, but in alignment as a soul just helped her to process everything she was going through. It helped her to forgive herself, and I really feel like, and we’ll see, we’re still working together, so I’m still here to support her a little bit further on her path, um, I really feel like this is gonna enable her to take her partnership to the next level, and that is a really, really beautiful thing.

[00:37:09] And as I’d mentioned earlier, , these are the type of situations that if you just look at it through the human lens, you can very wrongly conclude to, throw this relationship away, or through the human lens, stay in the relationship anyway. It can go both ways, of course. But when you take off the human lens and put on the soul lens and zoom out and look at the whole picture, you can see things a whole lot clearly.

[00:37:40] And if you’ve ever had that feeling, “Why did I do that? That was a mistake,” you can find grace and compassion, ’cause it’s very highly likely that you were meant to. You were actually in alignment when you were making the, air quotes, “mistake”. So when this episode releases, we are gonna be smack dab in the middle of Soul Week.

[00:38:14] That is my free immersive program where we’re gonna be teaching and talking about how you can create your signature soul modality. It’s gonna be a taster, an – amuse-bouche, if you will, into Soul Blueprint, my signature soul modality. Uh, if you’re interested in learning more about that and potentially joining, you can sign up to Soul Week for free, allysonscammell.com/soulweek.

[00:38:48] I would love to have you part of it. It’s gonna be a super high-value event with live classes, interviews, healings, manifestations, and all of it is for free. And there will be a VIP option with even more mentorship from me, some bonus live classes and worksheets. So if you feel like going a little deeper, there is an opportunity to opt in for the VIP for only $22.

[00:39:17] So this is either a free or a super low-cost event. And if you’re feeling some sort of heart yes, I would love to have you part of it. My invitation for you this week is to ask, “Is there a soul contract on any part of my life that’s trying to get my attention?” If you get a yes, dig into it. What is it?

[00:39:43] What’s, you know, ready to be healed? If you feel like you’re not intuitive enough to do this work, just ask questions. Asking questions kicks off a co-creative process, and it gets your divine guidance team working to get you the answers. So start by kicking off the questions, and the answers will arrive.

[00:40:05] That’s a wrap for this week. I am so grateful for you each and every week. I appreciate you. Thank you for staying with me till the end. A hug of gratitude I’m sending out your way. And as always, until next time, may you be returning to soul alive.

[00:40:24] If this episode stirred something deeper you’ll find a link to book a soul blueprint connection call in the show notes.

00:00 Welcome to Soul Alive

00:51 Mistakes and Soul Alignment

02:37 Sarah Relationship Crossroads

05:58 All In or All Out

08:41 The Affair and Guilt

11:32 Past Life Betrayal Story

16:47 Why Souls Need Contrast

20:44 Soul Contracts Questions

24:31 Holistic Healing Approach

29:01 Following Higher Self Anyway

34:02 Conflict Fuels Evolution

38:05 Invitation