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Have you ever been offered a powerful business opportunity, but instead of responding with a wholehearted YES, you froze… or even rejected it?
When we let our shadow selves take the lead, they keep us playing small and safe.But when we are able to truly own our worth and light, we can say YES to invitations with confidence!
My guest for today’s brand new episode of Soul Guide Radio almost let her shadow say No to appearing on the show! Nadine Bonk is a wonderful somatic yoga and pilates instructor who wants to show other women their own beauty and worth.
Tune in as we discuss how she first got triggered when I asked her to come on the show, what we did to release the resistance, and what she wants to launch into the world.
You’ll discover:
- How Nadine activates her students to fully connect with their physical bodies
- What inspired her to join me for the last Soul Blueprint cohort (and what she learned!)
- An invitation that will have you connecting to your own Spiritual Gifts to boost your confidence and own your worth!!
Allyson’s Resources:
- Learn More and Enroll in Soul Blueprint – A certification course to invite your Spiritual Gifts to get your clients massive results and transformation
- Contact Allyson Directly: DM on Facebook, DM on Instagram, Send an Email
- Join our community at the Soul Guide Circle of soul-guided leaders and entrepreneurs
- Leave a review for Soul Guide Radio (and we’ll read it on the air!). And…if you take a screenshot of your review and send it to me, and I’ll send you an Intuitive Gift of Gratitude
This Week’s Invitation
Take a deep breath, drop into your body, and ask your higher self: Is Soul Blueprint my next aligned step?
If your heart whispers yes, I’d be honored to walk this path with you.
[00:00:00] Hey, ho dear One today we have another Inside Soul Blueprint episode where I’m talking to soul clients who have signed up for my signature certification program, Soul Blueprint, and we’re exploring what motivated them and uncovering all sorts of magical things within the conversation. And that is certainly what unfolded in today’s conversation. But before we get to all of that.
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[00:01:49] Let me know specifically what you received from an episode. Give me your feedback. I’d love to know and I will read your precious words on the air. Today we’re going inside Soul Blueprint and talking about owning our gifts with the amazing Nadine Bon. So why don’t we go ahead and get right to it. In today’s episode, I chat with Nadine about why she joined the latest cohort of Soul Blueprint and we unpack how she first got triggered when I asked her to come on the podcast and what we did to release the resistance. We’ll end on an invitation that will have you connecting to your own spiritual gifts to boost your confidence and own your worth. So please stay with me until the end.
[00:03:10] Hey there, soul Guide Circle. We are a global community of soul guided leaders, coaches, healers, and entrepreneurs. In the Soul Guide Circle, we’re inviting in our spiritual gifts to get our clients even more results and transformation. To create a big referral buzz. Find a link to join our closed Facebook group @ allysonscammell.com or in the show notes today I talk to bunk about why she joined Soul Blueprint and a whole lot of other things.
[00:03:39] When I first. Asked her, , if she would consider coming on the show. She didn’t respond right away, which is totally fine. I never thought anything of it. I know she’s busy and then she responded with a simple, yeah, sure, I’ll do that. And then when we get on to get to record, she says that. I really triggered something inside of her.
[00:04:04] And what I had said to her when I asked her if she wants to be on the show is I said, Hey, look, Nadine, I love your energy. I think you’re an amazing fit for all Blueprint. I am so thrilled that you’re gonna be part of the next cohort.
[00:04:22] And I would love to attract a hundred more lightworkers just like you and I don’t flatter. I only tell the truth. So I was just really literally speaking from my heart and she felt that she felt that I was speaking from my heart. But what it triggered in her is why would she want to attract someone like me?
[00:04:42] Why would she want to attract more people like me? And it was her shadow talking and her wounding. So we started to talk. We unpacked everything. We started to release this. Shadow, and you can see actually the transformation in the conversation. And then Nadine just starts to step into her power. She steps into owning her work.
[00:05:09] She starts to talk about the work she feels passionate about doing in the world. Somatic yoga movement of the body, allowing your body to move in the directions that it feels called. And as I was sitting there listening to her, you know, I’m, I’m in the process right now of trying to find a new yoga studio and I’m thinking to myself like, where could I go?
[00:05:33] What am I looking for? Like, who can I talk to to get a recommendation? And now Nadine lives far away from me, so unfortunately she can’t be my week to week yoga instructor. But as. I was listening to her talk about her genius, and she just, it just naturally came alive and it just naturally started to flow out of her.
[00:05:55] I just said to myself, oh my God, she’s the yoga instructor I’ve been looking for. She’s the one, everything she’s said, I, I just kept saying to myself, oh my gosh, that’s what I’ve been looking for. That’s what I’ve been looking for, and all we had to do. Was identify that she was in shadow, shift her outta shadow and into light, and all of a sudden she came alive.
[00:06:22] So I’m very excited to share with you my conversation with Nadine, where we talk about all manner of things that I really believe you’re gonna receive so much from it.
[00:06:40] Hi Nadine, how are you doing? Hi, Allison. I’m fine, thank you. How are you? I am great, and I’m so happy to be chatting with you, and I invited you on the show to just share with us a little bit about what inspired you to sign up for Soul Blueprint. And I asked you that question a few days ago, like, Hey, do you have a minute for us to chat about this?
[00:07:02] And it really triggered a lot within you. This question like, why? Why are you joining? Can you say a little bit about what it stirred up inside of you? Yeah. Okay. So, well thanks for, letting me share this again after I, I told you all about this. Yes. This question, this invitation triggered many things in me.
[00:07:23] So when you, uh, asked me, oh, can I share information about, uh, about what inspired, what did you say? You said, can I share why I was inspired to sign up for the program and, you would love to find other women like me to, to join. My first reaction was actually, oh my God, who in their right mind would want to find somebody like me?
[00:07:49] Why would she find somebody else like me? And that was my initial reaction. And, I hope you find people who are a bit more together than me eventually. Joking. So that was my first reaction, um, that that got triggered. And when I thought about it,
[00:08:04] I felt very honored being asked to share and being part of the program and, being invited to be, to inviting others like me. And so there must be something behind me. So lots of self doubt behind, , signing up for the program. Lots of fear about being good enough, being interesting enough to be asked this question.
[00:08:24] So this was all triggered when you asked me to. Yeah. Uh, thank you so much for sharing that. And another thing you said is. One of the things that did draw you to the program is me in the sense that you and I have worked together a little bit in the past, and feedback you received or feedback you had mentioned to me is that I see something in you that you sometimes have a hard time seeing in yourself.
[00:08:51] And I just wanna share for a moment, from a place of just like love and pure truth and honesty. I don’t flatter people. I don’t believe in flattery. In fact, I really, one of the things that I really, really, really, I, and I am a super tolerant person. Like it does, it takes, I’m a projector. Sorry, I have a setup for this ’cause I’m, I’m making a point here.
[00:09:15] I’m a projector. Projectors have a very limited amount of energy, so we don’t do drama. We don’t get mired down. We don’t, we literally don’t have the energy for it. So I don’t do drama. Very little bothers me except for fakeness or things that aren’t genuine. I have no time for that and it, I’m just like, if it’s not real, I don’t want to be part of it.
[00:09:36] So I’m speaking from this very real, genuine place that Nadine, you have like these incredible gifts. You know, and I, I can see in your family lineage, you come from a long line of healers and intuitives, and one of the things that. We uncovered from a little bit of working together and your human design chart is your, you have this like very powerful connection to your spiritual gift of leadership, which is this true essence, our being, our embodiment without masks, filters, hiding and, and, and we all have masks and filters and hide.
[00:10:09] But when we peel that away, what is left? But our being and just, just being, and as you had mentioned it to me, it feels like your bare feet in the grass. And so I just wanted to reflect that back to you. Like these, these, this amazing, powerful light that I experience when I’m with you. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much.
[00:10:35] And you are pointing out that you don’t do flattery, so this makes it even more valuable because I was, sometimes there is this doubt, so why is she flattering me? Why she. What is she trying to make me do by this flattery? But at the same time, I felt that it was not manipulation or flattery and that it was honest and that’s why it’s so special to work with you.
[00:10:57] As I said at the beginning, the other day, I don’t feel that I need to apologize to you for. So why I’m reacting in a certain situation, I don’t need to, explain. And if I do feel like explaining, it’s just, as a reflection of, , finding depth, depth or, something inside me that I hadn’t discovered before.
[00:11:18] And it feels so, , it f feels so, valuable and so amazing to be seen and heard. And, yeah. To to, to have a reflection back like a mirror and somebody trusting, trusting you and seeing you. So, that’s feels absolutely amazing Alison. So thank you for that. Mm.
[00:11:41] I’m just gonna receive that. Thank you. The other thing I would love to talk about is your vision. You had mentioned that you’ve been feeling a little stuck lately and you’re not really, it just doesn’t feel very clear. But, and then when you were telling me about your vision as I received it, it felt very clear.
[00:11:59] And I would just love for you to share a bit about what you are dreaming to launch into the world. With, you know, you’d mentioned, you know, some of the coaching Somatic yoga online courses. I would love to hear more about, , some of these dreams, even if it doesn’t feel all crystal clear in the moment.
[00:12:15] What feels passionate and exciting for you? Yeah. What feels passionate and exciting and what’s the vision? So my vision is,
[00:12:24] the essence, the true essence of what’s important. What I want to share with people is the fact that we are, and it sounds so simple, so I’m a little bit, still a little bit afraid of saying it loud to be honest, but I’m getting there. So thank you for giving me this opportunity. Um, what I want to share is the fact that I’m enough.
[00:12:44] It’s enough to just be, and that’s the same for you and for all of us. So I’ve been a yoga teacher since 2008. I’ve been sharing, all kinds of different practices in yoga and somatic experiences and what I’ve been fearing , in my own body, in my own, , in my own life, in my, in my relationships.
[00:13:03] , I think we all have doubt about ourselves. Are we good enough and beautiful enough and, clever enough, and we have enough training and information. To do what really? And when it comes down to, whatever situation you are in the end of the day, yes, you are enough. I’m enough. And. , It sounds so simple, but for me it’s just so profound.
[00:13:26] I’ve been seeing, like mostly working with women. , We all have complexes about our physical body, about our reactions and about our capacities, and when it comes down to seeing in these women, in these people, Hey, you’re enough. You’re amazing. You’re great already. You’re doing your best, and that’s enough.
[00:13:44] And that shift, that can already shift so many things. But most of us don’t see it. We need somebody, we need a mirror. We need a person to say, hi. I can see this in you. I can see the beauty in you. I can see you, and you are enough, and you’re beautiful. , And you are definitely doing this for me, Alison, for things again, and my vision or my passion is to be this mirror to other women to see themselves and to see the beauty and the capacity and the love within themselves.
[00:14:17] I’m also just gonna take a second to receive that vision. It’s so beautiful. It’s so penetrating and it’s something I mentioned to you before, Nadine, but I want to say it again and that is how something simple like you are enough. It’s simple, but that’s what we need. If we, if it gets too complicated, we can’t integrate it, we can’t incorporate it.
[00:14:39] That’s my frustration with some spiritual teachers. They say stuff that we know feels good and it feels inspiring, and I think it’s true. It feels true, but I have no idea what they just said, and I have no idea how to integrate it into my experience. And so we need simple. But it’s also extremely profound and there’s also so many people who are suffering from not feeling the enoughness.
[00:15:05] Yeah. And so, and it’s really the basis of everything else. So if I say that I’m enough and, , I love myself and I accept. Myself the way I am right now. That doesn’t mean that I want, don’t want to improve physically, emotionally, mentally, that I don’t want to learn new things and make new experiences.
[00:15:23] Not at all. But once I sort of reach out from the space of, oh my God, I’m rubbish, , I’m not good enough and I will never be good enough. , And then there’s this mental loop and going on and on and on and on. And then whatever we add on.
[00:15:37] We’ll always have a foundation of doubt and foundation of not enough. So let’s be, let’s, let’s feed the foundation of our beingness by being That’s it. You just said it. It’s our foundation. And if we don’t have that solid foundation, we can’t, we can’t jump up, you know, we can’t fly, right? We can’t exactly.
[00:16:01] We can’t spring up. You won’t even know where in which direction we want to develop or in which direction. We want to create strengths and learn new skills or, create new experiences. If we don’t know, uh, from the root of our being is what makes us feel us. What you’re like. Actually, what makes me feel good, and so many people don’t know this.
[00:16:24] So many people when you say to them in a yoga class, okay, for one minute, just listen to your body and do whatever feels good to your body. People just look at you and I think it’s such a shame. So it’s been alive. While than that, I’ve been integrating this just a minute. Close your eyes. Everybody closes their eyes.
[00:16:45] Just feel into your physical body. What does your physical body well realistically need right now? Do you wanna lie down? Do you wanna stretch out? Do you wanna be on your belly? Do you wanna stretch a certain part? Do you want to exhale? Do you want to touch your belly or your thigh or your head and people just look at you and we don’t know what we need.
[00:17:07] We don’t know what makes us feel good. How can we say, I’m going into a certain direction if you don’t know where you are starting off from. Yeah, yeah. You know, it’s interesting, Nadine, we, we were talking earlier and we were tapping into your higher self and your higher self was saying, you know, you’re already there.
[00:17:27] You’re already there. Just be in this state, more. In this state we’re talking about was this being, you know, this. Toes in the grass feeling and then your higher self said, write from this state, or speak from this state. And I feel like you just did it. And it’s so interesting as the person listening here live in the moment and there’ll be more listeners once this episode gets released.
[00:17:53] I’m just like being activated by you. Absolutely activated. And it’s very funny what you should say because I’m always very frustrated by. Yoga instructors who don’t let me do what you just said, and I feel like I have to sit there and do what she says and what the whole room is doing. And if I don’t comply, then I’m the naughty student of the class.
[00:18:16] And I literally have been looking for a yoga studio and instructor that gives. You this opportunity, even if it’s just for a few minutes at the start of the class, to just allow your body to move in the directions that it wants to move. And I’m sitting there thinking, oh my God, I wish I had Nadina as my yoga instructor and I wish I, I am wanting to receive from you.
[00:18:39] Like your get, you just like stepped into your gifts. You just literally did what your higher self just called you to do. And now me as the receiver, I’m just sitting here activated and wanting more. Thank you. We call this your buffalo steps, my word for homework. So you already are done. Like you, you, you already fulfilled your buffalo steps.
[00:19:02] That’s a pretty darn good student. Very efficient. Yeah, very, very efficient. Go back to being then. So beautiful, so beautiful. Ah, I’m just gonna take a moment myself to like just kind of sink into this energy. It feels so good. I’m just gonna myself be in my being and see what wants to come next.
[00:19:28] Yeah. So I’m just feeling, feeling called to share the ways that. Soul Blueprint can support Nadine on her path, is to continue to help her cultivate this vision, continue to help her, to cultivate her connection to her higher self, which she already has, but just to co cultivate that even deeper, to make it more of a trust bond, more detailed information coming through.
[00:19:58] That she doesn’t second guess anymore. She just receives. That’s my higher self talking and then really giving you more tools on your path, which you already have. So I’m just giving you a few more to release those fear blocks when they arrive or recognize the fear. We were talking about fear too, like recognizing it when it arrives and releasing, but also moving with the fear.
[00:20:20] And that’s okay ’cause that’s part of growth. But then just releasing those other blocks that no longer serve you. And Soul Blueprint is really gonna give you many different techniques to release fear blocks, but also decondition some of the condition thoughts that we live under, and then really move into that visioning of you already have a very clear vision.
[00:20:41] So continuing with that visioning and that tapping in to the frequency of your vision that., Bare feet in the grass vision. How can we be more and more in that frequency today? And that magnetizes your experience around you. So it gives you a more and more aligned physical reality.
[00:21:02] And then. Tapping into your spiritual gift of teaching, which is your unique genius. So taking all those powerful gifts you have of the somatic yoga, the coaching, packaging it together in an amazing online course. But in a place of ease and flow, so it doesn’t even feel like efforting. It’s just all coming together.
[00:21:23] And lastly, and maybe more, most exciting for you, Nadine is spiritual gift of leadership. And that is just being in this true essence and knowing that’s enough. And in fact, knowing it’s so much more than enough, it’s actually our most powerful way to be. So it’s enough and it’s really, really powerful.
[00:21:45] And I just want you to know, I feel so grateful and I said a little prayer to my divine guidance team to say thank you for connecting me with Nadine. She is a beautiful soul, and it’s just gonna be this experience. All the better. Thank you Alison. Can I just finish by saying I’m really looking forward to starting the program in a couple of weeks time?
[00:22:09] As I said to you, I signed up, to the program from a point of intuition and trust without looking at the details, which is the way that I function. And I’m looking forward to the program, particularly now because I just realized again, how amazing it is to actually say things out loud in a like-minded community, where there is no fear of being misunderstood. And to feel your energy being reflected back and to receive the information or the sharings, from others.
[00:22:38] , There’s so much value in this. , And, in terms of spiritual experiencing and emotional processing, I’ve been working on all this kind of stuff for, for years and, but it is a, it is a lifestyle. It’s maintenance. It’s like cleaning your house, cleaning your teeth, and. Things evolve and there are so many influences from the outside world, people and energies and situations.
[00:23:02] , And we keep getting dust , in the coronaries and it’s very important to keep clearing it out physically. So I teach this in my classes physically to keep the body healthy, but from a spiritual energetic point of view, we have to do our energetic. Maintenance regularly.
[00:23:18] And it’s so much easier if, you can do this together. And if somebody takes your hand and gives you tools and you broomstick to clean out some corners, to find the last bits under the hidden Yes, yes. Beautifully said. Yeah, beautifully said. Yes. . And, , one of the key principles, and we can just close out on this, one of the key principles I teach.
[00:23:42] And so a blueprint really at the heart of the program, it’s, it’s a continual, we’re on this path of continually returning to our alignment of the moment. Yeah. And we’re always gonna get knocked out of alignment. It’s part of being a human being. Always, always, always. Yeah. Like there’s no way That’s ’cause we know we don’t wanna be stuck in the center.
[00:23:58] We don’t wanna stuck anyway, so we keep floating in and out. So it’s exactly, it’s about having the toothbrush, the right toothbrush, and toothpaste and facial wash, and all the things right, that we would use to maintain our physical body. What are those spiritual tools to help us maintain our energy body, our connection to the divine and our alignment?
[00:24:19] And, , soul blueprint just gives you a series of very, very accessible. Tools and techniques and processes to always enable you to find your alignment in any given moment. And when you’re always returning to your alignment in the moment that accelerates your alignment to the bigger things in life, accelerates the things that you really want to be experiencing coming into your experience and the opportunities and the people and the resources and the income and all the other things, , it, it magnetizes it into your experience.
[00:24:52] That sounds amazing. Yes, it’s amazing. It is amazing. I’m excited. I’m so excited. Yay. Me too. Me too. Thank you so much for sharing your amazing wisdom. And this episode was so much more, people are gonna receive so much from this on so many different levels. , And, and I think like the biggest takeaway here is just this message of we are enough.
[00:25:15] And the way you described it was so powerful and penetrating and. I received that myself, and I know that the listeners are gonna receive that as well, so thank you. Thank you.
[00:25:26] And thank you so much, dear listener, for tuning in. I’m so grateful for you each and every week.
[00:25:33] Listen, if you’re looking for a mentor, if you are ready to set your business up. So that you’re creating offers that really gets your clients the type of results that are so profound. They have to talk about it to their network, and that inspires the very people who need your offers on a soul level to get into contact with you.
[00:26:01] And so the results you get for your clients becomes your greatest marketing tool. This is what Soul Blueprint is gonna set you up for. Above all that though, soul Blueprint is really about you. Your spiritual journey, your relationship with the divine, you getting more fluent in your intuitive languages, you getting clearer and more aligned to your big soul mission.
[00:26:28] You getting a clearer vision and more attuned and aligned to your visions of higher success. You totally and completely. Moving into the full potential of your unique genius and you being your true essence without the masks, filters or hiding. This is what you learn in Soul Blueprint. Enrollment is open for the fall cohort.
[00:26:53] If you are getting a heart nudge, a heart curiosity book some time to chat with me. If you’re at a heart, yes, go ahead and enroll and I’m gonna welcome you with love. But I’m really looking for the soul guided coach, healer, , writer, artist, entrepreneur, who’s looking to amplify their spiritual gifts.
[00:27:15] Who’s looking for a mentor on their path? A spiritual mentor who also knows a heck of a lot about business, who’s looking to get their clients that next level result to really start a referral buzz churning so that you really start to set yourself up for a beautiful inflow in alignment, referral based business that is a consistent source of.
[00:27:40] Of joy and revenue, and it’s a place where you can just find your soul alignment, because you are giving what you feel called to give to the people you most feel called to give it to. Again, learn more and enroll allysonscammell.com/soulBlueprint. You can find that link in the show notes, and I look forward to going on this magical soul blueprint journey with you. And as always, until next time, may your soul guide the way.
00:00 Introduction
02:04 Introducing Nadine Bonk
02:15 Nadine’s Journey and Overcoming Resistance
06:45 Exploring Nadine’s Gifts and Vision
12:43 The Power of Being Enough
25:32 Invitation