A Story of a Soul Contract

[00:00:00] Hello dear ones. Today is my birthday and I have been in a beautiful four part series in celebration of my birthday, where I’m sharing inspirational stories. And we’ve reached part four, and this is a story of a soul contract. So without further ado, let’s get to it.

[00:00:29] In today’s episode, I reveal the fourth inspirational story of our four-part series, which takes place in the 18th century. How cool is that? I’ll end on an invitation that will have you better understanding your own soul contracts and how they may be playing out in your life in magical healing and inspirational ways.

[00:00:52] So you’re gonna wanna stay with me until the end. . Hey, there we are a global community of soul guided leaders, coaches, healers, and entrepreneurs called The Soul Guide Circle. In the Soul Guide circle. We’re inviting in our spiritual gifts to get our clients even more results and transformation to create massive referral buzz.

[00:01:49] Find the link to join our closed Facebook group@allysonscammell.com or in the show note. Today I’m sharing a story of a soul contract. What is a soul contract? A soul contract is something that you agreed to on a soul level before coming into this lifetime because there was something you needed to heal from, learn from grow to experience, so that you can evolve to the next level of your soul potential.

[00:02:21] So if you’re coming into this lifetime with a massive past lifetime trauma wound. You will have a sole contract tied to that as a way to help you fulfill your soul curriculum. You can look at soul contracts as your sole homework,

[00:02:42] and so. This story is about a soul contract for my 8-year-old daughter, Freya. And because it’s my birthday, I feel called to just say this. It’s not something I would normally say because it’s a sort of public service announcement. I don’t talk a lot about. , our blended family. I do talk a lot about Freya because she’s my biological child who’s resident with me all the time and is always around me.

[00:03:16] So, uh, you know, she just comes up a lot. I have two older children who I did not birth, but I love them as if I did. They live with their mom in Maine, Sophie and Alexander. And we have a happy blended family. It’s not without its challenges, but I think in so many ways we have done it right.

[00:03:40] And we are sort of a case study for success. And so my public service announcement, which isn’t about this story, which I’m gonna get to in a hot sec, it’s my invitation for you. Maybe you are also part of a blended family and you’ll connect to this. my public service announcement invitation is to don’t make assumptions with blended families.

[00:04:09] It’s just happened twice recently, , where friends have referred to Sophie and Alexander to me as Pete’s kids, and that was really hurtful for me because they’re not his kids. They’re our kids. They’re his biological. Gold kids, but I take full responsibility and have full love for them as if I birthed them myself.

[00:04:35] Now they have biological mom who I love and respect and admire. , so I have always considered myself deputy mom. In our family, we don’t use the word step because for us it just doesn’t work. We never use the word half. There are no half siblings. In our family, there are only brothers and sisters, daughters and sons, and moms and dads.

[00:05:01] And so every blended family, however, has their own words. And so if step is a word that works for you and your family, if you are part of a blended family. That’s great. Some people use bonus. I mean, there’s lots of different words, but my invitation is just don’t assume. And just if you are talking to someone who has a blended family, I.

[00:05:24] Just say, just refer to those step kids, if you will, as their kids. And if they prefer step, they will likely say so. But I invite everyone to start with the assumption that a family is a family and there’s really no difference between an air quotes, nuclear family and a blended family. And we’re all just moms and dads and brothers and sisters.

[00:05:51] And daughters and sons. But the comment about, Pete’s kids being hurtful, I originally, you know, was hurt and a little bit, wounded by the other person, but then I realized that the other person hadn’t done anything wrong. What they had done is said something that triggered a wound inside of me.

[00:06:16] So when I did the inquiry, I realized that I had some wounding around this that was ready to be healed. And to be honest, I’ve spent the last full week healing the wounding I’ve had around, you know, our blended family and, you know, taking full responsibility as being the mom of all three of my kids and, and what that looks like and what that means for me and.

[00:06:45] Uh, any blocks that I had around that releasing them, and it’s really been liberating. And since I’ve done this work, I just feel like it’s kind of opened me up, like I’m, really claiming it. It, it, this healing enabled me to claim empowerment as a mom, but in all parts of my life. I am infinitely powerful.

[00:07:10] I am an empowered lightworker on the leading edge of consciousness. .

[00:07:14] But I am thankful that this came up because it enabled me, see this is the gift. And the, and our triggers. Our triggers are always gifts. ’cause it really did enable me to heal some stuff that was holding me down. So remember, if somebody says something hurtful to you, it’s not to say that you deserved it or that you need to put up with that, 

[00:07:36] But it’s more to say our triggers enable us to grow to the next level of our potential. And I am using this particular trigger as an opportunity to educate folks.

[00:07:46] ’cause I think. If you aren’t part of a blended family, you probably don’t know the right language to use. And certainly if you talk to other people they might give you different advice, but this is my advice to offer you to consider, and I’m not someone who normally dispenses advice, but I did really feel called to share this.

[00:08:09] So this piece of the story is a big digression. . Okay. Getting back to my daughter, she is in the equivalent of third grade American and she is in group five Dutch, uh, eight years old, and ever since she started. Elementary school, there has been a girl who she has just wanted to be friends with, and this girl has categorically excluded her.

[00:08:36] And of course, I’ve told Freya a million times to ignore this girl there are many, many other children who want to play with you. So choose the friends , who choose you.

[00:08:47] But of course that all always seems to fall on deaf ears because she’s just really interested in this person. This other child who will call Sarah. And so Sarah keeps basically, , just, it, it’s really been just exclusion. I’m not gonna say mean, I’m not gonna say bullying, although I do feel like purposeful exclusion is a form of bullying. However, you know, let’s just stick with this word. This is what has happened and Freya is just. Never been able to make peace with that. She wants in with this girl and this girl’s friend circle. And so sometimes the circle lets her in, but typically it doesn’t.

[00:09:34] And it’s just been a consistent source of pain and struggle for Freya. fast forward. Last week I was with my whole family, all three of my children in England. And my oldest daughter, Sophie, loves spirituality and she loves to have spiritual talks. So one night I was sitting down with all three of my kids and we were having a spiritual talk.

[00:10:00] And how that normally looks when I do it is we go around, whoever’s present. ’cause sometimes my nieces and nephews are present too, and they ask questions. By the end of it, I can be extremely exhausted because they’re asking for a past lifetime. They’re asking. So my teenage, uh, girl nieces now getting into their early twenties, of course, have in the past asked me a lot about boys.

[00:10:26] Boys they’ve liked. But anyway, I get all manner of questions, you know, a check-in on my crossed over dog or a crossed over friend who passed away young. You know, all those types of things.

[00:10:39] So I’m sitting around the circle with Sophie Frey and Alexander and Freya asks me very specifically and poignantly if she’s had a past lifetime with any of her classmates, and that is not something I’ve ever looked into for her. And I thought, oh, well that’s a good question.

[00:10:57] I wasn’t thinking at all about Sarah. So I tuned into it and I got the clear message that she’s had a past lifetime With Sarah. I was not at all surprised because we typically have soul contracts with people we are very close to, not always. But often people we are very close to, but also people we’ve really struggled with.

[00:11:19] So, you know, remember our triggers, the people we’ve struggled with who trigger us also come with divine gifts for us. So then Freya asked me, well, what was the past lifetime? So I called up the lifetime and very interestingly, but unsurprisingly, Freya was part of a royal family in like the 18th century in, some part of Europe.

[00:11:47] And Sarah was like part of Frey’s court, if you will, and she was like a lady in waiting. So in a way she was kind of like Frey’s servant. And they had a complicated relationship and Sarah really resented Freya. For the way Freya treated her, but they were also very close.

[00:12:11] So, you know, these sole contracts, dynamics can get sort of complicated. So anyway, they had a close relationship, , but Freya sometimes mistreated her and she resented Freya for that. So now we are in the current lifetime and the roles have reversed. Again, this is a common theme of soul contracts.

[00:12:35] If you, for example, betrayed someone in a past lifetime, it is likely if that person ha is with you in your current lifetime, it is likely they will betray you until the soul contract can be fulfilled. And that means you’ve done the healing and they’ve done the healing, and you’ve. Received the lessons, had the experience, and now you’re able to evolve to the next step of your potential.

[00:13:07] So what I haven’t done with this information is ask the question I. Now what? I am the mother. I am the spiritual teacher who has access to this very, very useful information. So you can see how useful this can be as you approach real world situations. So how do I support Freya in navigating this? Also, Freya profile is the two, four.

[00:13:37] That four line is all about relationships. Being in relationship, being a community builder, being a networker. So if you have a for line in your human design, it is likely you actually get a lot of pain and wounding from your relationships because you’re really here to be wise about relationships and being a community.

[00:14:00] And I see with Freya, so much of her wounding is about her relationships with other people so much. That is for line right there, which is also just helpful awareness. And so as the mother, how do I best support Freya with this information? And I actually don’t know, but I’m gonna ask Source right now and use this opportunity to share it with you because there may be a nugget in here for you as well for something that may be happening in your life.

[00:14:38] And with some variation of similar themes. So I’m just gonna take a deep breath, pivot down, connect my heart’s face at the center of my chest,

[00:14:54] and connect to Source Source. Now that I have this information about Freya and Sarah, how do I best support Freya in navigating this? Hmm. Thank you for the question. The first thing you do is don’t try to prevent her struggles from occurring. , don’t try to overly interfere. Don’t try to meet with the other parents unless your higher self says it’s time.

[00:15:35] Let Freya. Scr scratch up or skin up her knee

[00:15:43] and get this wounding ’cause she needs it on a soul level to fulfill this contract. Where you can come in is help her release some of the blocked energy that she’s holding inside so you can help her. In ways that children can understand, feel the feels, breathe, release, and at certain points you can point out the fact that she has this soul contract, so she can put it into context little by little, and certainly you can do this more as she gets older.

[00:16:30] So your job is to help her understand. Why these things are happening. Help her to heal the pain that gets triggered. Hold the space for her to do that. But your job is not to try to prevent the pain from happening in a way doing that you’re thwarting her ability to fulfill her own soul contract. And so this is a message we do have for.

[00:17:02] Parents or just people who love other people. A message for humanity is

[00:17:12] in many, many circumstances, you’re not here to help prevent other people from experiencing pain. There may be times where you can help them avoid a painful situation, but in those times, be sure you are led. By the voice of your higher self, because sometimes there are certain pains that people are really meant to experience on a soul level for their own healing, growth, and evolution.

[00:17:46] Wishing you blessings. Woo ooh. So this is Alison speaking again, and I really received that. I really received that. None of it surprises me, but I needed to hear it. , and I think as parents and just as people who love other people, it is our it natural inclination to try to save the people we love from pain.

[00:18:15] And most of the time, not all the time, certainly, but most of the time, that’s just not our job. And I think the big, lesson is to always be divinely led. Our higher self will guide us, and that be in the role of helping people to heal their wounds, not prevent the pain, but be there to help them heal the pain After the situation has occurred, the painful situation and to help people put things into context. And if you’re listening to this podcast, that means that you are a soul guided leader, lightworker intuitive, who has access to the spiritual tools, and maybe you don’t feel like you could do a past lifetime regression or get that level of detail.

[00:19:07] But my message for you is that you do actually have access to bringing forth that level of detail for people’s soul experiences, both your own, your for your clients, for your loved ones. And this is actually what I teach step by step for soul guided leaders and lightworkers to activate and amplify within yourself.

[00:19:34] Your spiritual gifts in Soul Blueprint so that you can access these abilities that you have, but they might be just dormant inside of you, or you’re just scratching the surface of your own potential, which is where the vast, overwhelming majority of us are just scratching the surface of our own potential.

[00:19:59] So if you’re interested. And learning more about Soul Blueprint. There’s a link in the show notes to hop on my calendar for a quick Zoom call, and I would love to chat with you about it and we can explore whether or not this is a good fit for you. My invitation for you this week is to reflect on any triggers you’ve had in your life recently or any triggers a loved one has had, and just ask the question, is there a soul contract here playing out?

[00:20:35] And by ask the question, I mean, of your higher self and your divine guidance team. Can you give me any details of this soul contract and what are you calling me to do or be to fulfill this soul contract at this stage of my journey? Because some of our soul contracts takes decades, even lifetimes to fulfill.

[00:20:59] So we don’t wanna think about fulfilling the whole thing at once. We wanna be focused on which sole contract am I. Confronting, if you will, or, or in relationship with at this point of my journey. And what aspect of that are you calling me to focus on and what are you calling me to do or be? All right, my dear ones, that’s a wrap for this week and this four part series inspired by my birthday where I have been sharing inspirational stories.

[00:21:31] If you haven’t caught the first stories, I invite you to do so. They are in the show notes and they are definitely worth a listen. And if you’d like to send me some birthday love and a birthday present. I would be so grateful, and you can do that in the form of a rating and review. You could find a link wherever it is you listen.

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00:00 Introduction

01:30 The Soul Guide Circle Community

01:55 Understanding Soul Contracts

03:39 Personal Story: Blended Family Dynamics

09:58 Freya’s Soul Contract Story

16:17 Guidance and Reflection on Soul Contracts

23:16 Invitation