She Grows with Allyson Scammell
Ep #35: Your Money Avatar and Spiritual Laws of Money with Gull Khan
[00:00:00] Allyson Scammell: Ugh. I’m so excited to welcome Gull Khan to the show. Welcome.
Gull Khan: Thank you for having me. I’m super excited to be here talking to you and your audience. Oh, my gosh,
Allyson Scammell: we have the greatest episode to unpack today. We’re going to be talking money avatar and the spiritual laws of money. This stuff is so important to women entrepreneurs.
I am really excited to get going, so let’s get into it. you are a money mindset, expert and coach, which I love. what’s the most common limiting belief about money you hear from entrepreneurs and especially the spiritual entrepreneurs you work with.
Gull Khan: Well, That’s a great question, Allyson, and it’s a very common question.
Actually, most people are spiritual people, especially in the end who are in this coaching industry as well. Cause I have lots of coaches who have actually come to become my clients. One of the common things I find with people who are spiritual, who are guided, who have intuition, et cetera, you can create these amazing results for the clients.
Unfortunately, they have this [00:01:00] idea that somehow there’s. Nobility in poverty. And if they’re spiritual, if their connection, the highest self, they cannot possibly connect to the materialistic world. And therefore they cannot ask the money and therefore for push money away that combined with the fact that they have this subconscious programming around money, that money is evil.
Money is evil when he causes it corruption, et cetera, et cetera. And therefore they have this really horrible, negative relationship with money. Even though some of them have actually done work now with, with, with the mentors and, or they’ve learned about the law of attraction and they’re trying to put them in place for themselves and then get all this argument.
Law of attraction grows. They can get this to work for other people, but they failed to do it for themselves reasonably, but because they have very. Very negative relationship with money. And so it’s almost to the point where they’re needed needy and they’re begging for it to come in, but at the same time simultaneously, they have this.
So it’s because of pushing it away because they don’t really like it. And this is, this is basically what we address and we have to address an I, [00:02:00] I actually had to deal this myself in terms of, you know, when I had this love, hate relationship with money where I really needed it. But under the surface, I’ve consciously I was hating money and I wasn’t even aware of it, aware of it.
And most people, most people have read the books like thinking, think and grow rich chance. Even Rhonda burns up the secret. I think, no, I think money is freedom. I think money is great. But when I think a bit deeper and I give an exercise, actually I have this exercise that it takes to do this exercise for me.
It’s very simple. Just keep an open mind, just write it down. And when they complete the exercise, they actually realize, Oh my gosh, this is what I’m really feeling about money. Not what my consciously trying to believe about money. Does that make sense?
Allyson Scammell: It makes perfect sense. Oh my gosh. Yes. Yes, yes. And, I love that so much.
And the other limiting belief, I wonder, do you encounter with entrepreneurs? Because we have to put ourselves out there so many different times and if we get a failure, like let’s say we’re launching a new product and we perceive that it fails. I think [00:03:00] failure is always a perception, right? yeah. I think that sometimes we get in this mindset that, well, we failed one.
So when we do it again, we’re going to fail again. Is that something that you have encountered as well with entrepreneurs?
Gull Khan: Absolutely time and time again, it’s not just that they feel it energetically imprint that on the air, on their aura, on the energy field as well. So I call this a gold trauma of financial trauma can be both by the rice.
It could be something that you felt in terms of goal, or you had a bankruptcy or your parents had a bankruptcy or their parents failed in a business on where? Cause I’m speaking to a client recently and it wasn’t in a, she kept not, she tried. Multiple times she’s a born entrepreneur. She’s tried multiple times to set up a business, but she kept feeling.
And when we worked at down and you know what happened, I’m not the first person though. This was before the business, before that blessed her, she’s been training all this time. It was actually her mother’s business, which didn’t take off and it failed. And she printed that into an energy for the age of nine years [00:04:00] old.
And then when she grew older and she had this urge to create a business like her mother, or be an entrepreneur to create financial freedom for ourselves, doesn’t matter what business she tried. She kept failing. She would have a little bit of success and then fail and fail and she kept repeating it. And the wash Peter did the war ingrained.
Yeah. More solidified the energy becomes, you know, the energy gets more and more dense and the more dense it becomes, the more strongly it shows up in your physical world. And that’s what happened to happen. So it’s not just the, you feel it, you are actually imprinting it and solidifying the energy in your, in your three D world.
And it gets to the point where it doesn’t matter what you touch. It turns to dust. Yeah.
Allyson Scammell: Wow. That is so fascinating. So I had the next question I was going to ask you and you preempted me is, I was, I have it written down here that I love that you’re a money mindset expert and an energy healer. I think that is a brilliant combination.
And I was going to ask you, you’ve [00:05:00] already done it a little bit. Can you describe how the two interrelate.
Gull Khan: That’s a great question. So I primarily, I’m an energy healer. That’s who I am. Okay. But people don’t understand that concept and they have different ideas of what energy healers do and et cetera. And if you see me, I’m not the conventional, you know, wearing rubes and having beads kind of person I’m far from it.
I’m not the conventional group type of person I taught. I’m a happy go. Lucky, quirky, funny person. Right. And I am a lawyer. So when sometimes when I speak, I speak with authority because I’m a barista in the UK. I come across as a very authoritative as well as again, not the group softly spoken gurus. Okay.
I’m none of that I am need, which is uniquely me. Now I am an energy healer, but because I primarily focus on shifting energy around money, I am a money mindset expert. Now, a lot of people who call themselves a money gurus or experts or. Whatever they you’ve been working with NLP and they don’t actually work with energy.
And they’re all [00:06:00] focused. They’re doing, I think, is putting the cart before the horse, before the cart. Right. And so the cart before the horse, rather than the horse, before the cart, they are trying to shift your energy by changing your mindset. That’s what they’re going to the affirmations do. That’s what, you know, writing out, you know, sort of things, Arjun, whatever.
Yeah. Because of the kind of techniques that, how for themselves, the problem is when you are trying to shift your air, your, your energy by shifting your mindset. It’s a very long laborious process. Yeah. I, it can be done. Absolutely. But the difference between doing that and actually reversing and changing your energy first, and the Lang of mindset to follow is different between night and day.
So I always say. You can follow following the conventional rules of law, of attraction that you’re trying to get an artificially think possibly about whatever you want to create and think I have it. I have it have it. You’re at least walking in the direction with your goals. But when you actually energetically clear the trauma.
So what we just spoke about right now, the financial trauma or the gold trauma, if you remember the energy from that, from the [00:07:00] energy fields. And I do them through a presence of mind called energy clearing. I have my unique modality through my unique energy Clarence. When we change the shift that energy.
I promise you answering your mindset can not help, but follow. It has to because the energy is no longer present in your energy field. You cannot feel low and bad about that particular incident. Your mindset automatically moves. So yes, you’ll retain the memory. Of course, it’s, it’s happened in the past.
You retain the memory of the incident, but the end negative energy has been moved and you’re no longer feeling the repercussion. And therefore you might think as well. It’s in the past it happened. Okay. Let’s go on to the next one. It’s like a surgery when you have surgery done and you, you know, once it’s healed up, like we, cause if I had a scenario with my daughter, once it’s healed up, it’s there’s a scar that remains a very faint scar, but I’ve healed up.
I don’t remember the, feel, the pain of it anymore. It’s a memory. Does that make sense? And that’s what happens. It should be energy from that particular incident or the memory and as an energy healer, that’s what I do. So I don’t [00:08:00] focus on your mindset in that quote, unquote, must I call myself an expert because I get the results.
I get a phenomenal compared to most other people out in the market. I do believe I wanted, when it comes to money, I am one of the best. Reasonably, because I’m not concerned about the mindset is I don’t care how you think about money. I’m going to focus on how you feel about money. And that’s where the concept of money avatar was born.
That’s the, that’s everything I do. All the tools, any tools I give you, I focused on energy tools, focus around changing your energy and feelings about money. And I promise you, if you change your feelings internally and your thinking and energy around money, your mindset has to follow. And that’s why, how, that’s, how I pray.
And I combine the two that way that yes, I’ve got, I’m trained LP. Yes. I’m trained. I’ve done. I’ve been studying psychologist’s assessments for the last 20 odd years. So I, even though I’ve not done a psychology degree, I have a, probably could do a PhD in it by now with the studying I’ve done on it. So I understand how the brain works.
I understand how your, how your neurons [00:09:00] in your, in your brains and form connections, but I’m not concerned with that. I’m concerned with how your energy is operating around a certain topic. And when we shift your energy, the neurons in your brains automatically shift their connections. And that’s how we get the mindset shift.
Allyson Scammell: I love that so much. It is so, so good. So you mentioned money avatar. Tell us what is a money avatar?
Gull Khan: Oh, brilliant question. This is one of my favorite topics to talk about. So one of the answers as were talking about right at the beginning of the conversation, you know, most people come to me have this really Harbor relationship with money, whether they accept it and then own it or deny it, it doesn’t really matter.
Well, we actually work on is how the truly subconsciously feel about money. And the thing that is a problem is the outreach person, has had this, you know, throughout their life had had to use money. I had to relationship with money, whether they knew it or not. So if you had a relationship with you since the early childhood, you need money for your clothes, you need money for your food.
He didn’t want it for [00:10:00] everything. Even those people who have denied monies or monies on anything. It is theirs. You need it for your essentials as well. Right? Now, if you have a right negative relationship with money, I don’t want to give you this metaphor. For example, elephant, you know, you’re walking into a room and this is really gorgeous guy that really good, you know, really had some tool.
Dark had some, you know, a bit of me off near the handsome man. And you, it came and the, Oh my God. He said, they’re looking and until your brother had been saying, Oh, he must be so arrogant. Human must be egotistical. He must be a narcissist. He must be X. One said still smiling. You’re saying all these negative things about this individual right?
So, if you’re giving off all these negative vibes to that individual, even though you might still be smiling, do you think that individual common approach you. Right.
No reason being not because anything you said, [00:11:00] because subconsciously he picked up all your negative vibes. So you’re given off to him. We know that we’ve experienced ourselves, but pick up other people’s negative mass towards ourselves. And if we accept the concept that everything is energy, cause the three core principles off of anything, the entire universe is everything at its core is energy.
And that includes money. Good. So number two, everything that is energy, everything is energy. Then everything’s vibrating at a particular frequency. And then that leads into principle. Number three, that everything is a vibration in a particular frequency. Then you are in harmony with the frequency you’re attracting to yourself.
So if you are saying, sending off and that includes money. So, if you’re sending all these negative singles to this individual, you’re not in harmony with him, he’s not gonna even look how you probably, and probably walk out the door without registering that you exist. Why would money be any different? So if you’re sending off all this negative vibes to money, why wouldn’t he show up?
And even if he did show up, why would it stay in the Sunday? Right. So through this idea of money at the time, You know, you’re able to form a friendship with her. Now [00:12:00] this the way decide many avatars born. I remember one of my girls. Yeah, Carmen, brother, who it was. I’m not going to say even if it did remember what’s the name, they said, pick up a piece of note to pick a piece of, you know, 50 pound note or 20 pound note and just really give it, my love.
Just really feel loving to it. And now I don’t know about you, Alison, but when I look a piece of paper, it doesn’t, I don’t have any feelings. I’m like, huh? Right. I had to order whatever coins people just, I it’s it’s for me, it’s inorganic metal has no, I mean, of course it’s energy, but I can’t connect to it.
So that’s where the idea of money arbitrage was born in my head. I thought, well, hang on minute. If everything’s energy, why do I have to see it as a piece of paper? Why cannot see it as my best friend? So, this is a technique that I teach that, you know, before you think about anything, I wanted to think, cause let’s do this together right now.
So I wonder if I think of someone now, this cannot be someone, you know, personally. Okay. We’re creating the new entity. So some, what would this person look like? This ideal best friend? Would it be a female? Would it be a match? Okay. Remember, we cannot use anyone, you [00:13:00] know, already. So you can’t be a brother, sister, friend, an ex boyfriend or husband, wife.
No one can, no one, no one, you know, already has to be someone new. So I want you to using imagination, create this ideal. Best friend is a best friend, too. Would it be a man? Would it be a woman? How tall would they be? What would they would be their ethnic background? What kind of hair color would they have?
What kind of eye color would they have? What kind of skin complexion would they have? What would they be age? How old would they be? You know, your age, similar, a bit older, but younger. What were they, what was sort of help these, would they have? What sort of smile would they have? What kind of energy would they exude?
Do you see what I mean? We’re getting very specific in terms of, you know, seeing this person as our best friend once you’ve created this. Allyson yes. I’m assuming you have this in your mind right now. Yeah. Yeah, I
Allyson Scammell: do. It’s it’s interesting. It’s kind of like identifying like your ideal client avatar in the sense that it’s yeah.
Right. In the sense that it’s similar questions, however you are saying best friends. So that’s a totally different energy. So when I was tuning in. [00:14:00] Yeah. When I was tuning into best energy, best friend energy, I’m getting this different person who’s appearing in front of me. Then my ideal client avatar.
Gull Khan: It would be of course, the two different engines.
The ideal client is someone you work with this best friend is, has got your back. Yeah. Declined. Isn’t looking after you, you’re looking at, it was client. This best friend has got your back. This bread fence is going to turn up before, you know, you need it, this friend, friends going to be there to support you through your deepest, darkest moments and be there to celebrate your, your best moments.
It’s your best friend. Right? So the energy is going to be completely different. Now this best friend, you give it a name for me, for example, it’s Michelle. And then this is your money at the time. This is the individual that you’re now going to communicate with and form a relationship with. Now, this is the first time you meeting it’s it’s okay.
When you meet your best friend, sometimes you just hit it off from day one and it’s brilliant. It’s brilliant. Other times it takes, depending on how you are, it takes some, you know, breaking the ice, getting to know each other. It’s fine. [00:15:00] Depending on how you’ve treated money up until now, that would dictate how easily you form friendship with this individual.
You just won’t. And this is your money over time. Now, can you see the difference? You’re now communicating with this amazing, amazing person that you’ve just put together in the imagination. Who’s your best friend. Now, anytime you’re in trouble, some do anything your best friend would turn up. She worked.
And this is the key here. Now, most people have this media energy, this need, or greed for money. What I want you to start feeling is neither need or greed or anything about money. I want you to feel respect honor, and I’m going to treat money with dignity. Now, when you have your best friend, if you cut for example, Example me show my, my, my money.
I’m tired if Michelle’s there and I’m thinking, Michelle, please, please, please, please come and see me. I really miss your reading media. We need you. Michelle’s going to take a step back and go what’s up. You know, I need some [00:16:00] space. Give me some space. Go right. On the other hand, I pick up the phones and Michelle, I haven’t seen me for a while.
Let’s catch up. Let’s go for a spot. Let’s go for a cup of coffee. Let’s go for lunch. She’s like, yeah, I’m a C to go. Let’s go on. Let’s get together. And even if you can’t turn up. To me physically should be on the phone with me, but obviously she’s the restaurant. We’ll be seeing each other every pretty much every day.
And we’ll go for a cup of coffee lunch together. Can you see.
Allyson Scammell: I can.
Gull Khan: Yeah. Big difference from being needy, please, please, please come. Now another very important point. You know, the money has ebb and flow money. Money comes, money goes, mine cannot stay. You can’t lock. So if you try it, if I try and lock Michelle in a rooms and Michelle, you can’t leave me.
She’s not going to be my best friend anymore. She’s not going to stay with me anymore. She’s going to run away from me. I’m fearless as quickly as possible on the other. I had Michelle meets me for lunch and she goes, and she had a fantastic time with me. And I give her all the respect or the love that I can at the same time, giving her the space to be who she is when it’s time for her to leave.
I said, okay, fine. I’ll be sad. I, you know, she’s going, but I know. And I’m expecting her to meet me [00:17:00] again. Very sure. Very soon. That’s how imagined having the energy with money, you know, money’s coming, you’ve got this bills to pay. You’ve got the commitments to pay. You got to play your, you know, your consultants is that as business owners, you pay you, you both your salaries and also your consultants and et cetera, et cetera, you’re paying all these bills, but you know, that woman is coming.
You don’t mind school. It’s going to come up. Can you see the difference in energy? And when you feel that way about energy, how can he not think that when he’s going to be there and he’s going to come back. Can you see, we just shifted your mindset by changing your energy. We shifted our mindset by shifting energy.
This is really powerful. That is
Allyson Scammell: brilliant. And I, I got, I, I, Gabriela appeared to me. I got something immediately.
Gull Khan: Okay. Because that’s your best friend in, and that’s your, and that’s how many I would turn. That’s the more stronger your friendship with Gabriella, the more money will show up in your energy field.
Allyson Scammell: Yeah, that is [00:18:00] really, really interesting. And I think that you are right. I think most people do kind of carry that struggle with, so let’s, can you to dive into this topic and please tell us what are the spiritual laws of money?
Gull Khan: Yeah, that’s another great question. This is the spiritual laws of money all work around.
I mean, I’ve missed this. there’s a number of them. You can go through it. One of them being that we have to let go of our need and our, the burden that we carry. One of the biggest things that I teach in terms of the specialism and he is let go off of the burden. So. The idea that you have to create this, this massive empire in your business, you as a person that I could actually create it.
I think when we let go of our ego and allow our divine self, either device energy to work through us. That is when we allow money to show up in the grant away that it does. So that’s one of the, one of the laws of money, which is in the let go of the need to be in control. [00:19:00] So there are, there are plenty other, a universal also money, but this is the one that I think that, that hell’s the most value because we get, if you don’t, if you try to do everything yourself, and I see this time and time again, especially if you have those people who have these really horrible.
And, read destructive relationship with parents, especially dads. Okay. So if you feel, if say it this way, your relationship with, with everything, not just money, but everything it’s actually influenced with your relationship, how your relationship was with your mum and dad, the dad’s energy is masculine energy.
He has a different role. Mom’s energy is feminine. Energy has a different role and we. Depending on how we actually receive that energy. We respond in that way. So I’m going to focus on dad’s energy because that is the energy which allows you to make, have, and create money. And if we felt as a child did not get that love and support from our father, we would be tending.
We have, we would have a tendency and this is myself included to do everything ourselves. [00:20:00] So people who struggle to let go, and I have to be in control and have to do everything themselves, have that idea that, you know, Well, my father, I can do it myself. I don’t need anybody. You know, I don’t need any. And that includes devices and those are the people that struggle.
They, they do, they do succeed and they do very well. They’re the South starters at the same time, they’re the ones who are a risk of burning out. They’re the ones who will do everything themselves. They’re the ones who will not ask for help. So if you take a step back and say, okay, I’m creating this through the aid and help of divine source energy, I’m casting the burden of all my troubles onto divine synergy and ask him to us.
I need you to come up with a solution. I promise you things will become easy and people or situations just show up for you. These serendipitous members was just a flickering across your life, which allows you to create and have money or anything else for that matter more easily. And. This is something that I had to learn over the, over the years that I’ve always been self starter.
I [00:21:00] can do it. It’s okay. I can do it. It’s okay. I can do it. Whereas when I let go of that and said, okay, do you mind since energy, you do this Swami. I want X, one said, you show me how, or you show me what steps to take and bring the right people to me. My life became in and somehow I haven’t, you know, I haven’t worked hard.
I was a fourth. But I don’t run off to clients. I don’t run off to teammates and team members. He would show up for me at the right time to be become part of my team. And I have an amazing team that’s working with me now. And that’s the reason why in the short span of two and a half years, I’ve created a multi six figure business in a complete new industry, not in the legal fields, a completely different area.
This is one of the major, major laws of the universe, where you cast the burden onto devices, energy, and let go of your ego off. I’m creating this, I’m doing this. You can allow divine energy to work through. Does this make sense?
Allyson Scammell: I have makes great sense. I love how you’re describing it. I have a [00:22:00] couple follow up questions on this.
So, Are you probably gonna get to this fascinating what you’re saying about this masculine energy, and what, what it can mean for you. If you didn’t have that growing up, can you, are you, can you tell us what the feminine energy tends to, how it shows up? Like what, what’s the feminine role?
Gull Khan: So there’s there there’s two parts to this, the ying and yang of we’ve.
We’ve known that for everybody knows that intuitively anyway, there’s two sides to every coin, right? The feminine energy. When you, when this lack there off. You ended up not being able to receive that much loss. So you ended up merging with the people so you can nurture, but you have difficulty receiving love, receiving compliments and even receiving money.
Okay. There are two parts to it. You create money with the masculine energy and you receive money with the feminine energy. And if you’re this lacking, I mean, I didn’t have right.I was able to receive love and I’m able to receive compliments and they will [00:23:00] receive all of that right. Easily. Yet, you know, I was, I had difficulty allowing somebody to help me.
So it was like I had to do the masculine thing myself, but I can do it. NACA was a do do, do it. And I was, I was the one who hustled a lot. I worked very hard for everything. So feminine energy allows you to be, be loved, to be nurtured and to become a good receiver.
Allyson Scammell: Beautiful. Beautiful. I love that. And then the second follow up question is I love what you’re saying about, you know, allowing this in and allowing the divine to come in and support.
but sometimes. I see my clients struggle with that versus the hard work. And, yes, we always have to show up, and take that inspired action, you know, for a law of attraction to really kick in or, or any sort of divine, receiving there’s inspired action in there somewhere. You can’t just meditate all day.
I don’t think. Or maybe you could, cause that is a form of inspired action, but you can’t just watch Netflix all day. Anyway. But what, how, [00:24:00] how, how do you draw the fine line? I myself, can I have workaholic tendencies? you know, like, any advice on like, yes, it takes work and hard work. But, yes, there’s this allowing in this, this, I guess I’m trying to ask, like, what do you tell people who are struggling with getting an alignment to inspire to action versus overworking and burning out, like getting into that flow?
Gull Khan: Great question. Great question. So I get this, I get asked this a lot. Okay. So what do you mean cost? And the burden does mean that I just sit in a room and, you know, I can try and affirmation that, like I said, meditation not meditate all day and have things pop into my lap. And I’m like, no, that’s what the average hours, lot of flushing group will tell you outside.
And I would say, no, you don’t. Hey, you can’t just say that. And that’s also the movie. I have this issue with the movie, the secret. That’s why that movie led most people to believe that you can just sit there and believe this will happen. Miracles, just show up for you. Sometimes it can happen. It can happen.
I’m not saying that it doesn’t, but that’s infrequent [00:25:00] for most, for most things work out in your life. You have to take inspired action. Now, the thing is the reason why we have to take action. Allyson is not for you to create what you’re creating is to create the expectation that it’s coming. This is the key to understand a lot of the times people, if they are seeing their charging affirmations, subconsciously they know they’re not done anything if they need to.
For example, if they need to create a business, sitting there charging information is not going to create the business on its own. Right. So if you are, let’s do say online example, you want, you want to attract X ones at clients. If you’re just chanting affirmations and not showing up on, on, on social media platforms or so forth, how are you going to attract the right clients?
On the other hand, if you’re doing a zillion things and being showing up in me in the busy body, Are you attracting the right clients because no, again, you’re not sending out the right energy. When you take inspired action, you sit back and think, okay, what’s the, what do you want me to do? What’s the best thing for me to do right [00:26:00] now in order to attract the right people.
To me that may be running ads that may be doing the live. There may be doing a collaboration with someone that may be that, you know, have to do it in a, do a Facebook live on this, or do a YouTube video on this, or create an Instagram post on this. Listening to your intuition and taking action on that and cutting down your workload from the hundred percent down to about 20%.
By focusing fully on the inspired action and not just being a busy body and focusing on your strengths, that is which, you know, that’s what actually means cost in the bedroom. If you’re not strong or something, for example, I’ll use my example when it comes to money. I think I, you know, I can talk about it all day long and I pretty much know everything around it.
Talk to me about technology and I’m like, huh, what, whatever. So I’ve got team members to do with it. I am not in control of it. I can let go of that control. I cause when I’m taking the spine, actually, what do you want me to do? Do I synergy? Okay. So sometimes it’s hiring new team member. [00:27:00] I, you know, if I wanted to develop a new program in Chicago and get hired another dummy team member, I need to do this, go and talk to this team member, get this help during this genius answer.
It’s not just me actually. Sometimes it’s me seeking guidance. What do I do? Food was speak to how can I move forward? And how can I move forward in putting some of the, you know, you had some time rather than actually spending a hundred percent of my time on the particular task. Taking that inspired action then leads you on to the expectation that you’ve done the work.
And when you are expecting things to show up, this is a missing link. When you’re expecting things to show up, they will, this isn’t the Bible. I’m not Christian, but I do believe in it in the new and the old Testament. Cause that’s part of my, my, my teachings. And the, the ground almost steps of the ground follows the old Testament and the new Testament anyway.
But there’s a saying in the Bible that, you know, believe, and then expect that you will receive it, you will receive it. And some, some things in those under the ground, too, that when you ask something from God and then you [00:28:00] expect it to, you know, that your, your, the wall, your prayer has been received and you expect to receive it.
Only then do you receive it? Can you see how powerful this is? Allyson? When you cost the burden, you expect God to take up the burden. You expect God to give you guidance and doing X, Y, and Z. And then you take actions on X, Y, and Z. And it may be that the clients come to you, not through your lives, but through a referral, through an old client or a friend who saw your life, it doesn’t matter.
You’re still getting the fruits of your labor, but it’s coming to you via, you know, from, from device managers, from the device and you will bring the right clients to you and they, you may not even be taking the action required to get the clients to yourself, but because you’re taking the right action and you’re in tune with what you’re supposed to be doing, you’re in the expectation mode.
To receive. You’re good. Do you understand that? Does that make sense?
Allyson Scammell: It does. I love looking at it that way. That’s so good. And I think that’s such a practice. It’s such a, important practice, especially as an entrepreneur, when [00:29:00] you can get into the rhythm of where is the inspired action coming from?
Okay, what else needs to be done? And especially as you start to grow and you start to get income coming in to that enables you to hire help. That is like, and as you mentioned earlier in the call, you said you have a team now that’s amazing. Like you’re surrounding yourself by incredible people who are helping to grow, helping you to grow your business.
I think that’s like the, one of the most beautiful parts about being an entrepreneur is getting to that point when you can invest in help that. Just help you carry your vision to more and more people. It’s such a beautiful part of the process. And I think a lot of entrepreneurs kind of resist that, hiring help for a lot of the reasons that they resist bringing in money, you know, they don’t deserve it.
They need to do it all on their own. They have to overwork to receive all those thoughts. Right.
Gull Khan: Yeah, it’s the afterwards a card for my money. That’s one of the core beliefs. Most people have they, in order for them to make money, they [00:30:00] have to be working really, really hard. And I, no, not really. You can make money, you should be making money.
Making money should be easy, and it should come with ease and grace and you infuse the energy of ease and grace in everything you do, everything you do should have easy grace for that. Be it creating money, having money, talking online, building a business, building relationships, et cetera, et cetera. It’s when we have made everything hard and we have, we’ve heard the phrase as well.
You know, marriage is a hard, bringing up children is hard. Building businesses, hard, building an online business is hard. You know, getting, becoming a doctor it’s hot. Do you see what I’m saying? Everything’s installed. We have the energy of heart in it, whereas why not infuse the energy of ease and grace in everything you do?
Allyson Scammell: Yes, yes, yes. I love it. So cool. Could you offer a daily practice or weekly practice that will help us too use our money avatar to help us grow our business or to help us grow our business income.
[00:31:00] Gull Khan: Brilliant. Fabulous. And I love you, the fact that you ask this question, I want you and everybody listening here to be talking to your money avatar on a daily basis.
So I’m assuming the kind of audience you would have would actually already been tuned to doing daily meditations. I, if you’re not highly recommended, first thing in the morning or last thing at night, and if possible, maybe both, you know, 15 minutes of both ends and. When you are in this meditative state, see yourself conversing with your money avatar, and then use your money to advertise as a guide to say, well, you know, if you know, I love you so much, Michelle, you know, what do you think?
What advice do you have for me? On this particular business aspect, do you think I should do X or Y? Or how do you think I could do this? Or if you have, if you don’t have a business, some people can be thinking, well, the business I have the moment I’m not really happy with. I don’t really like what I do. I want to change business, but I don’t know what to do.
Ask him any other tasks. I asked Michelle for me, you would new Michelle, Michelle. I’m not really, really keen on what I turned them on and it doesn’t feel right anymore. [00:32:00] What else do you think I can do, which allow more of your energy to stay with me? Oscar, when you able to, for advice on alternative businesses, on alternative models, even advice on UK, hi team members is either the idea is to seek guidance, except the fact that this guidance is not coming from your money.
Our Trump per se, is coming from devices, energy. It may be verbalized by money. I will talk in your imagination, but knowing all the well. That all your guidance or you help is being received from the one Supreme energy, which is divine source energy, which is connected to everything and everyone, including you, and therefore the advice received from your money, Tom is going to be for your highest good.
Allyson Scammell: Oh, that is spectacular. I love that. I love the idea of a money
Gull Khan: avatar and so good.
Allyson Scammell: Well done. Okay. So I have one last question then I’m going to ask how people can find you. And this is a variation of the question I just [00:33:00] asked. So it’s kind of step two. I always ask my podcast guests to leave our listeners with a challenge.
Gull Khan: Brilliant.
Allyson Scammell: You kind of already did that, but,
Gull Khan: I’m
Allyson Scammell: going to ask you to leave him with another one.
Gull Khan: The first thing I’m going to do before the, everybody here created some money avatar, I’m going to give you the same task. I give up the, what do you do next? Because I give to everybody else who asks me well, what Google?
We don’t believe that they have any negative feelings towards money. I wanted to get your phone. I want you to put a timer for five minutes, and then I want you to grab a pen and paper and then free flow. Right for the next five minutes, till the time it goes off everything that comes to mind when you think of money.
So money is initially you may say, Oh, money means freedom. Money means challah money. Man says money means that. And as you stop thinking and just continue to write, your subconscious mind will come through that pain. Okay. Impact through the pen and paper, I thought you will literally see in black and white where your true feelings are towards money.
So this is super powerful [00:34:00] exercise to do, to create. Any struggles, any frustrations and anger towards money will all come through on the piece of paper and you’ll see it very clearly. That’s the first point. So the first, before you can change anything, you need to become aware of what you’re, where you are be a common way of your status.
Course. If you’re denying that, then you’re not gonna be able to move forward. And you’ve got to, you have to see how far you’ve come. So find out where you are right now. Where is your relationship and right now, and how do you truly internally feel about money? This short five minute exercise, we’ll do that perfectly for you.
Step number two is then going to create this money avatar in the way I’ve just described, you know, 20 minutes ago in terms of getting very clear gender, you know, man, female tour, short ethnicity, hair, color, background, education level, and how do they speak? How are they and whatever. I mean, I, I might. It is you, you, you find that your money avatar probably end up being very similar to you because my friend of mine, Michelle, she’s funny, she’s sexy, she’s quirky.
And she’s, you know, she acts like a [00:35:00] real bimbo at times. And at the time she could come out with profound, amazing, strategies and stuff, because she can just be this no amazing, amazing person with me as you would with your friend, it can be the most intellect. She doesn’t have these amazing deep conversations with your friends at the same time, be stupid and silly over a piece of cheese.
Right. That’s what you do. So have a fully formed, clear vivid imagination of what you might use, your imagination clear that vivid image of this money out of this best friend who is now your money. I would talk, give them a name is very important. Give them a name and then have. Regular meetings with them.
If you have a best friend, if you stop seeing them every day, or at least some, at least few times a week, then no longer your best friends. You know, my best friend, Mike, my Nancy, my best friend is in India at the moment. And I talked to her, at least my God, every single day, I would talk to her. If not my phone, it’d be like through text.
You know, if that’s how you communicate, you’re on constant communication. Whether you find in the first is the good news comes out to your, or talk to her [00:36:00] first. If I have issues, I talk to her first. That’s how your best friends are. And I know my best friend has my back. So this money avatar should actually in true sense, become your best friend and would have your back in the new find.
As you begin to trust your money, avatar your money. Indirectly money begins to trust you because money knows you’re not going to hold it. You’re not going to keep it. You’re not going to lock it up in a room and throw away the key. You’re going to allow it to have the ebb and flow that it needs. And you don’t allow it to come and leave.
You. With ease and grace and therefore more and more and more money can show up for you and have more and more trust with you. And you can form a more solid bond. I hope that that makes sense.
Allyson Scammell: It makes perfect sense. I love it really, really brilliant. and I think that this work, these challenges and exercises that you’re leaving us with is so important for entrepreneurs.
I mean, I worked for government for 17 years and I had days where I felt like I didn’t even have to show up with a pulse
Gull Khan: to get a [00:37:00] paycheck.
Allyson Scammell: Like it was really like, it wasn’t always a very structured environment and it was really hard to get fired. So I never really thought about like, you know, having to, you know, what I had to do to make enough money to make my rent.
Cause I just knew the paycheck would come. But as your printer, it’s a totally different game. And I think having this healthy, aligned, flowing relationship with money is critical for you to grow a prosperous business. I really do. And I so appreciate the work that you do in the world. so important. And as you describe what you just described really made me also think about, I mean, you could add any example to it, but I see it with hiring coaches.
And I guess this is a pitch for hiring coaches, like, like you, whenever I hire a coach that I feel inspired and aligned to hire, even if it’s a ton of money, I always, I feel like I get that money back very quickly [00:38:00] in terms of increased sales or whatever. Because I think that that law, that those spiritual laws that you’re describing are at play.
And I feel like when you hire the right coach, you can really see that, in, in play. I
Gull Khan: agree. I agree. I mean, it, if you are hiring coaches or mentors who are aligned with and who are, who’ve already achieved, what you’re trying to achieve already, other energetically you want to be, then that works well.
It can work the other way around too, if you hire the wrong Crutcher. So you have to be careful who you hire. And this is why one of the questions I asked him, I worked for in my, in my mastermind. I is three and I do the calls myself. I don’t have anybody doing the course for this reason that I, I actually asked them specific question at the end and I actually asked them and I said, please give me an honest answer as possible.
And I would ask, do you believe X, Y, Z, whatever the name is. That I am the right coach, the right person for you to help you with your money, to help you build a better money, more income and savings. And I listen [00:39:00] to their answer. If there’s any hesitation in their voice, I say, no. Okay, because they have to say that I am the right person.
And then the second follow up question for that is, do you know, do, can you see the working with me would benefit you and your family? Again, I listen in, not just for the yes, but I listening for the hesitation, any slight hesitation. And there, there is no invitation to join the mastermind at all, because I’m very, very clear with that.
You have to believe that your coach and your mentor is the right person for that. You know, the person you’re speaking to, it would be the right coach or mentor for you. And then when you do, and there’s also for the coaches to have the intention, because my intention always says anybody who spends one pound with me, $1 with me would get minimum of $10 or 10 pounds back minimum.
It’s usually more than that. And when I set that intention and the right people come in and then they trust me to be the mentor, they, she said they actually do believe it. But can you see the power it creates in energetically? So they actually do receive milk from 10, probably a hundred times as that in terms of value bank.
Allyson Scammell: Yes, yes. And hugely [00:40:00] point. And it just demonstrate that you’re a great coach that you’re doing
Gull Khan: this
Allyson Scammell: work. and, and doing this work that gold talks about she’s calling in the right people, which is enabling her to give the more than 10 pounds back, like a thousand pounds back. And then she’s going to get referrals to other likeminded people.
And it’s just such a beautiful way to grow being in that integrity. Like you’re talking about, I’m just not going to take on any client. I’m putting up the velvet rope, and only allowing in my ideal people. And, and that, again, you’re getting into this flow of the money and, yeah, it’s just a beautiful way to grow a business organically.
Gull Khan: Brilliant. Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely. Yes. And I, and this is the reason why they’re kind of results that I have got from my class. You get the nobody who’s interesting in seeing, go and see the, the case study after case study, after case study that’s on my success stories or my go.com website.
There are so many there and it’s, some of them are mind boggling. Like one of my clients, Steph she’s cleared $150,000 worth of debt within six months. Somebody [00:41:00] else like Skeeter, who was getting allowance from our husband for $2,000, went on to within two months of joining the mastermind, ended up making five figures a month.
And during the pandemic in April, especially she, at one point she was making $2,000 a day. Those are crazy stories that I have. Often people because they have, I mean, I, everybody comes to me already has the tools and know how for the business. Anyway, I’m not a business question. I refuse to be one, all I do is remove the money blocks and then you remove your money blocks.
The knowledge you already have can actually explode your business. And that’s what I find. And then that’s why you need to call in the right people to work with you at the right time.
Allyson Scammell: Beautiful. So you’ve already alluded to it. Tell us, and this will all be in the show notes. If people want to get on your mailing list or connect with you directly, how can they find you?
Gull Khan: Oh, brilliant. So thank you so much. If anybody’s interested in working with me or finding more about me, then please come and visit my website, which is www dot [00:42:00] dot com. And you can register for us for a free challenge as well, which is on millionaire. That website for that is www dot millionaire mindset, makeover.com or we’ve run about three or four challenges Joanne through during, throughout the year.
When I talk more about the money, have a talked about cord cutting about we deep dive into energy tools for free and that you can go find us. And then, and there complex, if you like listening to me and you’d be like listening. We today with Alison having this amazing conversation, then please come and find me on Spotify, on iTunes and Stitcher and money mindset with Golkanda.
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Allyson Scammell: Brilliant. I can’t. Thank you enough. What a fantastic episode. I myself have learned so much and I’m excited to do this exercise. I’m going to do it myself. I, I like to think that I got it all, like all my money stuff figured out, but I have a feeling that there’s something in there that I’m not seeing.
Gull Khan: I can almost
Allyson Scammell: feel it.
[00:43:00] Gull Khan: Yeah,
Allyson Scammell: exactly. You can always improve. So thank you so much for that and for making the time to share your brilliance really appreciate it. And I look forward to sharing this episode with, with my listeners.
Gull Khan: I look forward to receiving a link listing myself. I thank you so much for having me as a guest.
I had an amazing, amazing time, man. Thank you so much.